I am 49, divorced for 10 years with 3 teenage boys who live with their mother and I am wanting a girlfriend for a close, happy, warm, comfortable and lasting sexual relationship full of love and support.. Isn't this what everybody wants from a partner? But how do we know when we have found the right person? And what are the best ways of finding the right person anyway? Any good advice? Compatability is important but how can we recognise this? Are shared values, priorities and principles important? And "chemistry"? People can experience amazing "chemistry" frequently, sometimes or never. But what is "chemistry"? And what ingredients make it happen? And is "chemistry" reliable? Does it indicate compatablity of the kind that I want? And what about sexual attraction? Can we improve our sexual attractiveness? Or is sexual attraction something beyond control? Is it important and, if so, in what way? And it is important to have shared interests and some areas of difference?
2006-08-15
03:28:48
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