I like this guy I play music with, but he is sending mixed signals. He is friendly and kind, but I once mentioned having been in love in the past & he got a look of fear and trembling in his eyes. Also, he looks afraid when I have mentioned that I was doing something with people on Friday--as if he was afraid to hear I was on a date. Also, I mentioned having gotten a little tired of people talking shop, and he said nervously that he does that sometimes. He was flirty when we first met, but now he tends to be much more serious around me. Sometimes I think he is shy, but sometimes, he just seems plain terrified. I do not think I am doing anything so horrible, other than being friendly and open, but not pushy. Yesterday, I used "sexy" as an adjective, and he just about fell off his seat. I want to break the tension somehow, but I don't know what to do. While I have gotten to know him and he had never once mentioned a gf, but I just found out he has one. Any decoders out there?
2006-08-12
20:36:55
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