I like this guy I play music with, but he is sending mixed signals. He is friendly and kind, but I once mentioned having been in love in the past & he got a look of fear and trembling in his eyes. Also, he looks afraid when I have mentioned that I was doing something with people on Friday--as if he was afraid to hear I was on a date. Also, I mentioned having gotten a little tired of people talking shop, and he said nervously that he does that sometimes. He was flirty when we first met, but now he tends to be much more serious around me. Sometimes I think he is shy, but sometimes, he just seems plain terrified. I do not think I am doing anything so horrible, other than being friendly and open, but not pushy. Yesterday, I used "sexy" as an adjective, and he just about fell off his seat. I want to break the tension somehow, but I don't know what to do. While I have gotten to know him and he had never once mentioned a gf, but I just found out he has one. Any decoders out there?
2006-08-12 20:36:55 · 6 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys who have a focus on the future are shy around girls because we have been told that girls are for after success. Its not true, girls can be to help us reach success. If you can do that, you know, help him understand that your dedicated to the art as much as he is, then he will relax. Its not as big a commitment as it seems, its just that we don't want to lose sight of our goals, ok?
2006-08-12 20:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably gay. Stop scaring and scarring the poor fella.
You can end this all with one question: "Do you go out with girls?"
2006-08-13 03:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck him, just get on your knees and give him a huge BJ like mount st hellens im talking SUCK SUCK GOBBLE GOBBLE and swallow every last drop... that will break the ice.
2006-08-13 03:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by ten_inches_of_pure_meaty_poetry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just stop playing games.
2006-08-13 03:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes afraid of how pretty u r. that, or hes shy.
good luck.
2006-08-13 03:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a virgin.
2006-08-13 03:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋