The way I see it, there are two basic options:
1. Before a person has sex, they think carefully about putting each other first (before even Mom and Dad), they take full responsibility for their decisions and actions, and they make a permanent, public commitment - and spare themselves the temptation to let a third party into the picture or break up some time down the road. And if their partner does yield to those temptations, at least they have a clear conscience.
OR
2. Neither they nor their partner thinks about the above issues beforehand, the third party appears or there's a breakup, and then they realize, too late, that such things are not supposed to happen if one has had sex - otherwise, why would they be upset? And I think just about everyone is upset when stuff like that happens...
So, to me, option 1 looks like the better deal. On the other hand, I guess a lot of people choose option 2. Why???
2006-08-04
07:45:05
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