my son was murdered 11 years ago, and the murderer family, one member of the family, and still causing trouble

Question

One member of the family, comes around to my street, and is causing problems, talking to neighbours, my two young girls, are being told things that they dont need to know, and this is unsetting what should i do

Answer 1

Call the police, CONSTANTLY if you have to, even if they don't help, every call has to be taken down, and even if something were to happen, there's records that you were trying to do something about it, thru them.
Get a lawyer, they know the laws, can find loopholes and give you the best advice. restraining order???
I'd lock up, keep the kids in and safe, and be there for them as much as possible. If you can, I'd move. No its not easy, but is it worth it for peace of mind.
I am so so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine the pain you are going thru, let alone the fear. I pray nightly for the safety of my children. Heaven help you, knowing the murderer and having to deal with him, you are a strong person. You and your family are in my thoughts...good luck

Answer 2

Put in a complaint to the police about this person. Have you been on good terms with your neighbours? If so, speak to them and explain that your daughters know nothing of the past and ask them to protect your daughters and try not to let them hear what is being said. If you cannot resolve this matter, I am sorry to say that you may consider whether it is desirable and/or feasible to move to another area. Good luck I hope you can find peace and happiness again.

Answer 3

Get a restraining order.
Call your attorney you've used or are familiar with from the past, and ask about getting a restraining order against this person. You can apply for one directly from the police if you like. This person probably has no other real reason to go to your neighborhood, and it seems like you have enough of a reason for a judge to say he/she can't come within a certain distance of your house or kids' school. If they do, they'll be arrested.
You do not need to feel pressured that you should move or anything like that. You've moved on with your life, and so should this person. Good luck.

Answer 4

I'm so very, very sorry about your son. You have two options. One would be to get a restraining order against this family member. The other option, which I would do if I was in your shoes, is to move. If moving is impossible, talk to your daughters and your neighbors and ask them to be on the alert for this guy... and stay away from him.

Answer 5

Call the police and stop all this goin on.. You aint in the wrong and it's time that persons family were bought to book ..You can get an injunction where no member of his family or friends will be allowed anywhere near you..

Answer 6

Couldn't you go to the local police to see if they could put a stop to it?
I can't begin to imagine what you're going through and you certainly shouldn't have to put up with that family member.
Isn't there anyway of getting like a restraining order or something.
Not sure what else to add but sending you my best wishes.

Answer 7

I'm very sorry for the loss of your son. My brother died many years ago. It nearly killed my parents.

You need to get an attorney and get a restraining order against this person. Your attorney will take statements from your neighbors and daughters and file the petition.

Do it soon, please, for your girls.

Good Luck. Be Well. Stay Safe.

Answer 8

I know its not nice but you can't stop people talking. Maybe you should move house? If the member of the family is causing trouble maybe get an asbo on them?

Answer 9

Call the police and make a report. If this person keeps harassing you after that, I would file for a restraining order.

Answer 10

I would speak to the police - you may be able to file a restraining order against the family, as they are discussing things with your daughters that could indeed harm them, even if psychologically.