When it's about easy things, like dinner or a movie, my boyfriend talks. When he comes home from work he can talk for hours about his working day or other stuff that kept him busy that day. But when I want to tell him stuff, he only listens.
Sometimes I feel sad or upset and I want to talk about it with him. He will listen, but he won't utter a word. It doesn't help me if he only sits there, quiet. When I feel bad, I need some feedback or comfort or whatever. But he wouldn't even put an arm around me. NOTHING!!! It makes me feel he's not interested in me.
Also, when I want to talk about relationship stuff, he keeps his mouth shut. I would like to know what he feels and thinks, but there seems to be no way to find out. He keeps telling me he can't come up with an answer right away, but it's not like he can answer the question on the next day either.
I've tried to talk to him about this in a nice way, also got mad at times, but... he remains quiet. I miss sharing stuff with him!
2006-07-28
23:12:03
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luzy
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