Typically when someone crosses the line with me or is rude, I take the high road and respond diplomatically or just don't really respond at all. I know that if I lower myself to their level that I would be at fault, as well. Also, I tend to focus on the good in people and I make excuses for their actions.
The problem is that when it is all said and done, I can't let the anger with this person go. I feel this way towards someone that I worked for and will never see again. I know it is irrational to still feel this way but I really feel like I was treated disrespectfully.
What makes it difficult is that most of the disrespect was extremely subtle, so it was an extremely confusing experience on top of everything else.
How can I get closure to this?
2006-07-22
09:40:54
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JMY1998
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