u think u can fall in love with someone when you are only 15????
i am goin out w/ this guy and weve been together and last night he started talkin about how his friends girlfriends are getting pregnant (ony a couple) and how they hav held realtionships for lik years!!! is he trying to tell me SOMETHING?????
2006-07-22 09:40:52 · 32 answers · asked by ever_aj_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we are BOTH 15 we go to the same high school and this wasnt lik he said "ohh i want to have kids" he just started talking about how a couple of his friends grils are pregnant and how one couple is getting married! this is the first time he has mentioned a topic lik this! is he just trying to get into my pants or does he want our realitionship to last and its something serious for him?????
2006-07-22 14:08:48 · update #1
some people talk to their loved ones about their thoughts... doesn't mean it's his wish or want at this point... it does however mean that he analyzes couples and their commitment, and this is probably a good thing that hes speaking about it... he's probably happy in his relationship and is looking forward to when it matures into what he sees....
yes you most certainly can be in love at 15... perhaps even the truest deepest love of all... we older people seem to water down our love with rules, trying to change our partner, or just being so critcal of a new interest that we toss it away in search of the perfect one....
also let me say this to you since you are so young... Life is not Tv and Tv is not Life... you're not owed a fairy tale ending... rather the chances are that it will be not so fairy tale at all... it's up to you to make your fairy tale happen... make your relationships work better through comprimise and respect. and then you'll be on the road to happiness...
good luck...
2006-07-22 10:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by krisidious 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes I believe you can fall in love at 15. But the majority of those relationships end by the time the 15 year old reaches his/her early 20's. So before you even think about agreeing to have a child that young (I have my first at 16) make sure that you are willing to put your life on hold at least that child is 15. Because that what I did. No days you have all kind of child predators that don't care if the child is male or female. So remember that is a big responsibility and on the other hand I am now 35 and have no kids leaving at home. And believe me I am working on my body to make it nice again. Plus liposuction will be done by the time I am 40.
2006-07-22 09:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is trying to tell you something: but age 15 is age 15. How old is he? If he is older(16+)then it is definitely wise to wait. Because legally he would commit statuatory rape making a prisoner and a sex-offender out of him. So be careful. If you both care about each other, then the both of you can wait. It is hard to raise a baby....at age 15 you still need to finish high school, and as all of us did--you have dreams of a good future, something you cannot easily achieve if you have a baby while in high school...Good luck
2006-07-22 09:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be in love at 15, but having a baby or making any plans other than finishing school is very immature and will probably end in disaster. If you really love each other then you won't need to rush anything. And if you are sexually active then you both need to make sure you are protected against pregnancy, you have so much to experience you don't need a child holding you back.
2006-07-22 09:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all yes u can fall in love when u 15..
Secondly i think yes he is trying to tell you something..=P He probably likes you and wants to give u signs that he wants a real relationship .. not a relationship of the 3 months..He is thinking of commitment..Not bad.. Means he sees u serious.. not just as someone to spend his time..Dont start thinking of marriage or babies :| just have soemthing nice with him.. have a nice relationship that will make both of u happy.. dont do something u r not ready for or that u dont want..
Good luck girl!!!
2006-07-22 09:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. . . he was probably rattlin' or trying to talk you into sex (don't do it).
Can you fall in love at 15? Yes. Will it be permanent? Probably not. There are RARE cases of a relationship at 15 lasting into a marriage but the odds against it are overwhelming and I wouldn't be thinking that direction in 10th grade. You still have HS to finish and then college (6 years at least). You have time to wait and "shop around" for the real thing.
Wait and see (and don't give away the one thing you can and should save for your future husband. . . the one thing only you can give him. . . your virginity).
2006-07-22 09:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can happen at any age... but 15 is WAY too young to get pregnant. Just because you love someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex with them. At this age people should be focused more on their education and enjoying their childhood/adolescent years rather than being in relationships. You have the rest of your life for that stuff.
2006-07-22 09:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by q-n-a caka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to tell you something all right, but it's not something you should be listening to. I know it feels real, but it's just hormones. Think ahead a year or two and consider the consequences before it's too late. You're much too young to let a big mistake ruin your life. Is there an older woman you can talk to? Someone you really trust?
2006-07-22 09:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Frosty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IFyour only 15 your boyfriend is just a perverted whore who has no clue about anything in life your really young and should ditch anyone trying to do something very wrong at the time and live a little more your still really young
2006-07-22 09:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a 15 yr old can fall in love. but if you go all the way with a girl and she get pregnant. Are you willing to be the father of that child
2006-07-22 09:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by rebel_southern_cableman2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋