i'm 22 and just lost my virginity to who i think i'm going to marry in the next 2-3yrs. every attempt at sex has some downfall, (i.e. pain on my end b/c i'm too tense, takes to long to insert ending up in frustration on both of us, he'll go soft after hours of trying to make it comfortable for me). very few times its wonderful, we still have yet to master this. sometimes if we do get past all of the above, i just want to stop b/c i feel stupid like we're not getting anywhere. he's got stamina, so after a while i'm like ugh, when will this end. at times i love it but seconds later he'll switch it up or in my mind something changes and i just wanna stop b/c it seems like we're not getting anywhere. like its just sex and we're looking for a finishline. how am i to get into this more? i like it, but i guess my mind gets off subject.
2006-07-15
07:04:54
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