I am a girl who likes to have fun and jokes about with a lot of the guys, is it this that is preventing me from having a boyfriend?
When i talk to a guy, i like to make him laugh - therefore, i feel more comfortable and i think that makes him feel a lot more comfortable too, but now im starting to think that most of these guys feel a little TOO comfortable with me!
I seem to have SO MANY male friends - a lot of my girl mates have told me that i have too many male friends, and i have found myself in situations where i was surrounded by a whole load of guys!
What shal i do? i dont want to change but i think my strong sense of humour is pushing all the guys away from me in a romatic way! :-(
2006-07-15 07:05:57 · 24 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's nothing wrong w/ that. i admire those women that have a good sense of humor....
i have a lot of guy friends too. more guys than girls. i feel just as comfortable w/ them as my girl friends.
it doesn't really matter if you have lots of guy friends, the right one will come.mostly unexpectedly.
don't change just because you can't get a boyfriend,it's who you are. there will be a guy that will love you just by who you are.
just wait.patience is a virtue.
the best things in life is worth waiting for...for the mean time, enjoy your life....
P.S.
yeah some of the girls will tend get jealous bec there's a lot of guys surrounding you wondering how'd you do that...if they only knew,you were just friends...and yeah that's normal too.
2006-07-15 07:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by m1021 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u see any of them in a i want u to be my b/f then ask him out. no matter how many male friends u have if u like 1 become a g/f 4 that 1. the main thing is no matter how many friends u have (both male and female) u can still get a b/f just wait 4 the right 1 to come along.
2006-07-15 07:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by aholmes12003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Story of my life,I love being on of the guys, and for a while thought I could only have male friends. Maybe the next time u meet a new guy that you're interested in forming a relationship w/ you should make this very clear to avoid the friendship trap.
2006-07-15 07:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by sugasofly85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a wonderful personality. Just relax. Don't try to be funny. Don't try to be friends with them in hopes of finding a boyfriend. Just be yourself and enjoy their company. If you have a lot of guys around, you may be sending a message you aren't intending to be sending. You can also take the initiative. If there is a particular guy that interests you, ask him to a movie, or lunch, or to a park for an afternoon. Take the lead.
2006-07-15 07:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have alot of friends that are guys. And I ended up dating one of them for 7 years, so no this is not keeping you from having a boyfriend. The time will come and you will know when it does.
There is something about the opposite sex that people just feel its easier to talk too. This is a fact. Scientists have proven it
2006-07-15 07:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by à®håñtøm?Még? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that you have to do is expose your "naughty parts" to said gentleman suitors. This will cause them to forget all about your sense of humor and any other aspect of your personality. Unless of course you are unattractive. In that case, I recommend you look into joining the military. B all that U can B
2006-07-15 07:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start maybe makin a little more girl friends and mybe puttin some makeup on or somethin girly so the guys can relize that u r a girl who maybe wants 2 date them
2006-07-15 07:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by sotiedup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself a bit less available for their entertainment. They see you as "One of the guys" although physically you're not. If you start talking more with your girl mates they'll notice this and acting coy may work for most of them to notice, "HELLO I'M A GIRL, NOTICE ME!"
2006-07-15 07:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by MzzandtheChuchuBees 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and no again! Humour is very sexy, so:
Suspect some of your girl mates are jealous.........
And try not to miss the signs when that bloke really fancies you. Sounds like they are queueing up!
2006-07-15 07:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....guy friends scare boyfriends away.
I wouldn't date you. Too many Cocks in the Hen House.
2006-07-15 07:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋