He lives with me, he doesn't contribute financially due to the fact that he previosuly worked part time, made limited $$. He starts a new job in a couple weeks that will bring in roughly the same amount as before. He will use my car at his disposal when available. For example he'll use my car to visit friends/family, I'll give him some money so he is able to have a nice time. He'll tell me he'll be back in a couple hours or so, then WE can go out together. Then he doesn't come home until 3am. No calls to let me know. So when I confront him, he'll shutdown, get defensive, and have an awful attitude with me for a couple days. Meanwhile he'll still use my car, still run around town with my money. Mind you, I love him dearly, and don't necessarily want to break up with him immediatly over this. I just don't know how I can talk with him about this without him inevidably turning into a turd. Any advise? Please?
2006-07-15
08:37:55
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