My husband's been promising a change for a while now. He tries to make me feel guilty when I'm upset over this. But now, I'm at a quiet tiredness. I love him very much, but I don't want to be there in the bed if he decides to come up...and now I'm thinking about just leaving for awhile. Taking our 3 boys, and stay in a hotel for awhile. This addiction, as he likes to call it, involved him seeing a young girl at work (20 something), he's 42. He did not sleep with her, but he did kiss her, once he said, but his thing never got hard for her. This went on for about a month, taking her out to lunch, but when she asked him to get a hotel, he broke it off with her. So I forgave him. But now, I am just tired of going to bed thinking he's coming up too later. And later doesn't come except in alternate days...there's no consistency. We have great sex. I'm very attractive, nice body...very erotic and "freaky" as he calls it. But it's not enough for him.
2006-06-12
00:45:12
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