She interferes in absolutely everything and wants everything her way. if I don't do that even 1%,she gets dissappointed. And when she complains to my husband,he gets very upset at this as her happiness is all he cares for in the world,and loves her a lot, and expects me to yield everytime. I don't want to hurt him. I want to have a good and peaceful relationship with my in-laws. At the same time, I don't want to stop doing everything that I like, or lose my space or rights that I should have. I am educated girl, working in a very reputed company at a respectable position, it hurts to be living such a life,not able to do anything that I like, or ever rest when I want,straining relationships with husband for issues that arise out of nothing, and there's absolutely no identity in the husband-wife relationship of ours. As my mom-in-law governs our relationship too,there's hardly any scope of us doing anything together(even spending a li'l time together) and developing a bond between us.
2006-09-08
04:05:36
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drishti-kon
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