My husband & I are closer w/ my family but can't afford to fly back east for the holiday. We have been invited by 2 people, locally, to seperate Thanksgiving celebrations. We were 1st asked by our best friend whose family has really taken us in & made us a part of there family, no questions asked. We even call her mother, 'ma'.
About a month later, we were later asked by my husbands aunt, who is the only person in his family that we do have a relationship with & care for dearly. We don't see her often, because as I said, his family is not very close, but when we do see her, its always a nice time.
We don't know what to do. We told our friend who intially invited us yes because we thought no one in his family would (they usually don't &his parents never called me back) but urg...
Also, both are celebrating the holiday at about the same time &since we are not the only ones invited to the holiday feast we don't feel right asking them to change the time just for us.
What would you do?
2006-10-05
10:32:46
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17 answers
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Anne Marie
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