Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

I have a 40 year old friend, father of 2 boys and married for more than 20 years. He got married to the first woman he met. Love at first sight they say.
He just told me he started to wear some women underwear few years ago then he changed it to g-string type of underwear for men. He goes to bed with his wife´s pyjamas, he puts on some colored girlish socks in the gym, he mentions of getting removed his chest and back hair, he also thinks of doing liposuction for the little fat he has on his belly and so on.
His little brother is gay and his younger son (12) is most probably gay as well. So being gay kinda runs in his familly.
Is he also gay? Or the changes are some kind of middle age chrisis?

2007-01-17 02:50:01 · 22 answers · asked by dictionary 1

2007-01-17 02:33:20 · 26 answers · asked by davit4tru 2

2007-01-17 02:29:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 02:24:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 02:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-01-17 02:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a women and when im at a bar women always hit on me!!! I'm not gay!!! But guys think i look like ****!!! i Think im pretty but i just want other people to accept me!!!

2007-01-17 02:14:15 · 24 answers · asked by beileve in the unicorn!!!!! 1

I'm watching Dr. Phil right now and it's about a girl who has lived her whole life feeling like a boy inside. She wants to have gender reassignment surgery to allow her outsides to match her insides. Also on The L Word, Moira transitions to Max... anyway, my point is that there are people out there who are really born feeling they are in the wrong body! Just like people are born gay... And I do believe that happens. More and more, gender identity is being brought into public debate. Should medical insurance cover the cost of gender reassignment? and with what pre-requisites? In my opinion it should. Our country is founded on the 'pursuit of happiness' does that quote apply here? I am interested to see what everybody thinks...

2007-01-17 02:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 02:07:27 · 8 answers · asked by Puma 4

2007-01-17 01:51:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 01:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was told that wearing a ring on your thumb means you are gay....is this true?

2007-01-17 01:09:37 · 30 answers · asked by Smartypants 2

My friend and I have been friends for almost 4 years and we both told each other we are straight. Well, I know that I am bi and I just recently came out to ONLY my mom and her friend.

Anyways, a couple of days ago my other friend that hangs out with him more than me was telling me and my mom about his conversation on the phone. She said he was talking to another guy and had that soft sound in his voice when he said, "Well, I guess I'll call you later." She believes that he's bi or gay.

Also, for the past 3 1/2 years everytime anything about him was mentioned my heart started racing. I'm not sure if that's a good thing lol. I believe so but I'm not sure. I have been thinking about whether or not I should ask him since she told me that. He still denies it to her though. So, I'm thinking if I told him about me maybe he would tell me about him. Kinda jumping out on a limb and I'm going to admit I'm scared.
Just wondering what you all think and if what I'm going to do is a good idea?

2007-01-17 01:08:12 · 9 answers · asked by Ehrgeiz 2

2007-01-17 01:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 00:55:26 · 4 answers · asked by Salt 1

2007-01-17 00:49:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 00:28:45 · 8 answers · asked by Stifler 2

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2007-01-17 00:18:46 · 11 answers · asked by Tegarst 7

How can someone be married but also attracted to the same sex? If they were to mess around with a person of the same sex, wouldn't it be considered cheating?

2007-01-17 00:12:22 · 11 answers · asked by buddahbump 3

I have come across many excuses for not getting together with a disabled person - Many say they would be taking advantage, or they have no feeling, or even disabled should be with disabled.

I find these thoughts totally out and beyond reason. For in life, isn't sex mostly in the mind and the feeling we get from it is involving interaction between people? I believe this and feel more should open their minds to new experiences if they are socially active.

So, I ask: "Why is it hard to have sex with a disabled person (Mentally competent)?"

2007-01-16 23:59:54 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

If a guy claims to totally respect lesbians, has lesbian friends etc. but still looks at lesbian porn for his own gratification, does he truly respect them? I know it's a strange question, but it popped into my mind following a personal experience and I wondered what opinions people might have.

A good friend of mine has very close friends who are lesbians. He seems totally indifferent to their sexuality (i.e. he's not one of these people who seems to think lesbians were created for his own erotic pleasure!). However, I found (I wasn't looking for it, I just found it!) a load of sapphic/lesbian/girl-on-girl porn on his computer and it's left me a little confused as to whether he really does respect lesbianism as much as he claims to...

2007-01-16 23:58:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-16 23:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by Saffa_Boy_83 2

If you walked into your friend's room, only to find them attempting to commit suicide, i.e. slicing risks, ingesting pills, with mask to face, What would be the FIRST thing you do?

a) Turn and walk away
b) Call 911
c) Attempt to slap the pills from his/her hands
d) take the razor from them
e) Try to get their attention to ask them to stop

What would you do??????

2007-01-16 23:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by adiahudo 3

I am doing some research for a paper so serious answers only please. I would like to know your feelings on Gays in the Military. I would also like to know how you feel about the current policy in place. Now Imagine for a min that you are on the frontlines and all you have is your buddies to your left or right and you are praying that they remeber that last 1st aid class or they got 40 out of 40 on their weapons qualification. At this very moment are you thinking " Are they gay"? Does it really matter to you their sexuality and why. What are your why's and why nots. Also if you can point me in direction of any "credible" resources that discuss this topic let me know. I am researching for a paper and I am not gay but my position is that I feel the current policy protects the homosexuals privacy and sheilds them from any ridicule after all sexual orientation does not affect job performance and we "all" know that "AIDS" is NOT a disease that affects homosexuals only.

2007-01-16 22:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-16 22:31:59 · 6 answers · asked by shadi f 1

2007-01-16 22:29:34 · 27 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1

how can i feel wanted when my girlfriend talks to this other girl all day an all night an i have no one to talk to i have to listen to them cut up an laugh an all an this girl always wants time alone with my girlfriend do i trust my girlfriend in a way i do an in a way i dont because i feel like my feelings are being played with by them both an i dont know what to do can someone tell me what to do thanks

2007-01-16 21:38:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-16 21:33:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know there are pitfalls and potential ridicule but I am seriously thinking of living 24/7 as a woman.

Any thoughts from those who have done this as well as from anyone else would be appreciated. I am not thinking of SRS.

2007-01-16 21:17:31 · 25 answers · asked by Sammi 1

if yes,what options r there?

2007-01-16 21:14:12 · 2 answers · asked by Tara 6