what can i do to feel wanted?

Question

how can i feel wanted when my girlfriend talks to this other girl all day an all night an i have no one to talk to i have to listen to them cut up an laugh an all an this girl always wants time alone with my girlfriend do i trust my girlfriend in a way i do an in a way i dont because i feel like my feelings are being played with by them both an i dont know what to do can someone tell me what to do thanks

Answer 1

Gosh! use some commas, I ran out of breath reading your question.

No human relationship is identical, and what may work for one pair may not work for another. However, I do understand your frustration, and I think you should talk to your girlfriend, and explain her how bad she is hurting your feelings.

Answer 2

I guess, if it were me, I'd find someone new to hang out with. And yes. You may be being played, but it's an easy thing to correct. If you don't like the way you feel with these people, then you're probably in the wrong company.
Real friends make things feel better not worse.Have you ever said:"Hey. When you guys do this xyz thing, I feel left out and unwanted."?? Try being honest. If things don't change...stay away. At least you'll regain your sense of power and self-respect.
Ultimately, no one can TELL you anything. You must realize in yourself what you need and don't want. It's part of maturing into an adult.
But worth it too! :}

Answer 3

Yes you need to be a good listener, but dont tell your girlfriend anything about yourself, then she cant use it against you at anytime. Just be yourself and be a good listener, then all your friends will want and need someone to listen to their woes and highlights, if your the one, then they will alll allways come to you and if your clever you can use all their information to make wise answers but dont tell others about any of the others, in otherwords never become a gossip because then you will have no friends at all.

Answer 4

you shouldn't have do anything to feel wanted, just ask her whats up why doesn't she talk with you as much is the other girl just a friend or what. if your girl can look you in the eye and tell you the truth you should trust her but if she can't then ain't no reason you should stick around and keep bieng lied too. don't change who you are for somebody who doesn't care.

Answer 5

That sounds like they're playing you right in your face. Stand up to them both and ask them what's going on. If nothing is going on then explain to your gf how it's making you feel. But if something is going on then leave her b/c even if nothing sexual has happened yet. I say emotional cheating is much worse than sexual cheating b/c sex can be just sex but when you have feelings for someone everything means so much more.

Answer 6

You need to tell your girlfriend how you feel.

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Answer 7

Do you need affirmation? I think you know the answer.

Answer 8

be a good listener