2007-01-17 01:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have had girlfriends that were understanding. I am a guy.
2007-01-19 12:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most crossdressers and transvestites are heterosexual married men, so the answer is yes.
My ex told me about his crossdressing when we were still in high school. He went on to be a really talented Drag Queen. The marriage failed because of his drinking and inability to put his family first. That would have happened regardless of what he was wearing.
Many women accept this, however MOST heterosexual women do not want to see their husband as female in any way as it threatens them.
My suggestion is that you always be up front and honest and persistent in finding the right person because you will never stop crossdressing, and lying and cheating do not make a good marriage.
2007-01-17 01:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 10 years, my wife did not I crossdressed until a year after our marriage when I told her. She took it kinda of hard at first, but then she started coming around. She started buying me all kinds of clothes and underwear. Now she wants me to dress all the time like a girl, she says it makes her have more control of me and better to get along with. So now I dress all the time even to work but in the style all working women wear.As soon as I get home though I have to put on a dress and my make-up just to make her feel like she has control and which she does. Know when i am not working I have to dress like a girl all the time and go out with her into the public dressed like that, and now she feels comfortable with it. She even makes me go to the store by myself. I feel more comfortable being more open about it. You know it's all up to you and how you feel about it. Whatever you do, do not be so close minded about it, be able to talk about it makes people like me more comfortable. LOL.
2007-01-17 02:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sef B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can absolutely find someone. I am a woman who is completely in love with a man who cross dresses. It was a bit of a shock but it really didn't mater to me because I am truly in love with him and it makes him happy so it makes me happy to accept and love all of who he is. Just keep looking and you will find someone who loves you for who you are. There are a lot of people who are ******* jerks and will bully you but don't give them the satisfaction of bringing you down. Keep doing what makes you happy, thats all that matters. Being different is much harder in school i guess because young people are still trying to figure out who they are, a lot of your bullies probably have something weird or different about themselves that they are 2 afraid to show everyone which makes them lash out when they see someone who isn't afraid. Keep your chin up things will get better. I hope this answer makes you feel a little better about the future ;-) OMG I just looked at your pic you are very VERY beautiful!
2016-03-29 01:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you didn't use my personal clothing,. and did not go out with me wearing matching outfits. I think if you crossdressed in private, there wouldn't be a problem.
2007-01-17 01:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fo Sho!! Did you ever see Ed Wood?? I wanted to marry cross dressing johnnie depp!! I like dressing boys up and putting makeup on them and I think that a guy in eyeliner is one of the hottest things ever!! My current guy refuses to let me glam him up but I still try!
2007-01-17 01:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of women who stay with their husband after they find out that they are cross dressers. I suppose it's POSSIBLE to fall in love with one knowing they are, however, you must understand that most women are looking for men that look like MEN. It's not a turn-on for most women to see a man in a dress, and stockings, and heels.
2007-01-17 01:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it largely depends on individual and if it dont affect your personal and family life and its just some personal fantasy of yours.
some wont mind and would be nice to able to discuss clothings with a "man".
everyone has their inner secrets and as long as its keep to oneself and not at anyone's expense . . . why not. its a new world now!
2007-01-17 13:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i could unless i really loved the person but i know my aunt lived with my uncle for 20 years thru it but she kept it a secret until they split up she found it so hard
2007-01-17 01:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-20 06:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by socalicd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love works in mysterious ways . . . when it knocks and strikes it really does . . . be it gay, les or crossdressers in that matter.
yes . . . its possible.
2007-01-18 19:41:45 · answer #11 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋