Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

I met my boyfriend 8 months ago at a gym that is very popular in the gay community. The gym's sauna room is the place where gay men sneak around to make out. My gym membership has expired for 6 months now but his membership will go for another year. Going to the gym is his daily routine, but he only takes shower and rest in the sauna room. I can't help suspect him often fools around with other men in the gym even though he is nice and sometimes affectionate to me. I don't think it's possible to ask him to give up the gym membership or not going to the gym so often, therefore I didn't heckle him at all whethere he fooled around in the gym or not. We don't live togethere. Our relationship is going fine as I don't ask about the gym and he doesn't mention the gym at all either. I am insecured by the possibility of his gym sex; but I don't know if I should ask him, cuz I don't think it's possible to ask him not going to the gym. I'm therefore gloomy sometimes and he has to suffer it.

2007-01-22 00:22:29 · 11 answers · asked by Edificios 1

2007-01-22 00:19:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

say it honest and true..

2007-01-21 23:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by Ahmad Soliman 2

how could this happen?

2007-01-21 23:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because they're fruit bats.

2007-01-21 23:41:05 · 4 answers · asked by Dr Know It All 5

(am i?)lol!

2007-01-21 23:29:15 · 13 answers · asked by dfin_88 1

are there any other women on here who are bisexual. im sick of never finding anyone that is bisexual. i came out over 5 years ago and i can't find anyone to express myself with! tell me there are more out there!!

2007-01-21 23:03:08 · 23 answers · asked by Kirsty N 2

Are you born gay or become gay went you can get no dates?

2007-01-21 22:21:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 22:11:25 · 17 answers · asked by SAguy 1

2007-01-21 21:59:29 · 9 answers · asked by leigh p 2

2007-01-21 21:47:07 · 13 answers · asked by leigh p 2

2007-01-21 21:45:58 · 5 answers · asked by leigh p 2

2007-01-21 21:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by leigh p 2

2007-01-21 21:29:34 · 19 answers · asked by leigh p 2

Is it because lesbians have better sex than straights or gay males or is it because we women have a better grasp on a relationship?

2007-01-21 21:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by MaryCheneysAccessory 6

I seem to always end up in a sling. What can be said of me?

2007-01-21 20:45:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been single for two years now after being in a long-term relationship for over 13 years.Although I enjoy being single,I miss sharing my life with someone and growing with them.I have always been strongly attracted to african-american men and have always dated them exclusively.The problem is, since I have been single the past two years, I have had a very diffecult time finding professional, serious, relationship oriented African-American men who want to date and not just hook up.I have passed over numerous white guys that could have been great relationship prospects because my attraction to them is not strong physically. I don't know why I am so drawn to one group and not the other,I just accept it and know that's how it is with me.So,should I hold out and only date guys I am drawn to strongly both physically and otherwise, or would it be possible to be happy with someone who I am not strongly attracted to but who is a great person?

2007-01-21 20:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by Bruce C 2

I NEED SOME HELP...OKAY SEE ME AND THIS GUY WHO I USED TO GO OUT WITH WHO... I AM NOW FRIENDS WITH...WE TALK TO EACHOTHER ALL THE TIME ON THE PHONE....BUT AT NIGHT WE GET FREAKY AND LIKE TO HAVE PHONE SEX.....WHAT IS GOING ON?DO YOU THINK WE STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR ONE ANOTHER OR WHAT? DO YOU THINK WE SHOULD GET BACK TOGETHER OR WHAT?

2007-01-21 19:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a white american girl who was racially and culturally (verbally) abused by several people from the Korean and Chinese cultures for six and a half years of my early adulthood for being white, although being raised very culturally and racially accepting (this is why the abuse confused me and hurt me a great deal), and I'm just wondering how I can stop being angry and move on with my life. The things that were always said to me or the actions that were always done to me were away from someone of my own culture, so when I'd go to talk to someone from my culture, they had no idea that this obnoxious abuse was occuring, and they didn't know what to really say about it. It's been very hard for me to relate with these cultures, because I saw too much and had too much happen to me that I almost feel like I'm not part of my own culture anymore (the acceptance of other cultures), because I'll try to tell someone what really happens or can happen, and I'll sound wierd or censor things.

2007-01-21 19:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by maybe this will help-Harvey Milk 5

Let me explain.

Most of the supposedly "Christian" bashers come in here, use Romans and Leviticus as their supposed "proof" that being gay is against G-d, but they only use scripture that pertains to Paul.
Never once do they show love, compassion, tolerance, charity, inclussion. They simply preach about hate, sin, damnation, hell, all that nasty and quite frankly WACKO stuff.

Why don't they get it? Why do they call themselves christians when they don't seem to posses even one "Christlike" attribute?

2007-01-21 19:13:31 · 14 answers · asked by DEATH 7

i have this friend, seriously, it's not me. anyway, he's always obsessing over girls, but most everyone that meets him, especially, girls and gay guys, ask him if he's gay to his face or ask me when he isn't around. one gay guy said he's gay he just doesn't know it. also he has had a girlfriend or two and they did have sex and all that. what do you think?

2007-01-21 19:07:06 · 5 answers · asked by kevin g 2

my current and most recent ex g/f have been i lil bigger then me my ex was my height but heavier (but not fat) and now my current g/f is almost 5'11 where i am only 5'4 and lets jus say she doesnt exactly have a swimsuit worthy body i mean i know its the inside that matters but the outside itimidates me and it is preventing us from takin our relationship to the next level if you kno wat i mean *wink* it always happens to me this way we start of being friends and i end up fallin for the girl knowin i dont really see myself "do it" with her but in the inside that i love, her personallity. being the stud in the relationship i like to be in control 90% of the time and thats hard when she could bodyslam me with her pinkie finger. im not trying to be a snob o anythin i jus want to kno how can i get over this fear. maybe im scared that i cant give her wat she wants the age diference she has WAY more experience then me i want to show her i love her and fufill her urges how do i do that?

2007-01-21 19:06:00 · 3 answers · asked by HP 2

I'm bi (maybe les) fem.. how can I tell if my fem friend's bi or has bi tendancies without asking (as of yet)?

2007-01-21 19:03:45 · 3 answers · asked by Sponge82 1

I just want to find out if here is a person who might know why some evil people hate other people so much that they wanna wish them all the bad things. Why should they bother with people that they don't even know.

2007-01-21 18:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by Zico 1

favorite gay artist(s) Rufus Wainwright, Antony(and the johnsons) Favorite lesbian artist(s) Melissa Ferrick, Tegan and Sara, Indigo Girls

2007-01-21 18:24:01 · 22 answers · asked by adriboho 2

When did guys started becoming trannies?

2007-01-21 17:55:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i said i had reasons for saying she was gay/bi cuz like she would always be staring at me in class..well not exactly staring but like we just make eye contact a lot since last year and its really weird but i never said anything..and like on her myspace it said she was straight. anyways so i asked her and i said had reasons for saying she might be gay/bi and now that she says she isnt, what do i say when i really dont have a reason? and i cant say that "you look at me a lot" cuz that just sounds stupid and im not that good looking anyways so that'll sound stupid...any suggestions???

2007-01-21 17:29:24 · 13 answers · asked by fefe 4

2007-01-21 17:18:46 · 10 answers · asked by SIMON W 1

I'm a lesbian, but girls seem to think I'm straight and guys are constantly asking me out. Even when I tell them I'm gay, they don't believe me and think I am just trying to blow them off. They then for some reason think that I'm playing hard to get, and keep on trying. Even now that I have moved far away, it is still a constant problem...What the hell am I supposed to do?

BTW, just as a funny sidenote, my little brother is so totally straight, but he has the same problem (people think he is gay).

2007-01-21 17:08:21 · 15 answers · asked by IamBatman 4

In the Epistle to the Romans 1:26-27 (TNIV), Paul writes

"Because of this [idolatry], God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error."

This has been described as "the most important biblical reference for the homosexuality debate" (Hilborn 2002, p.5). It is also the only explicit reference in the Bible to female homosexuality.

However, a minority of more recent interpreters (eg., Boswell 1980, p.109f; Vasey 1995, p.131f) argue that Paul does not have in mind a system of natural laws (as this is an Enlightenment concept) [2] and that "Paul did not discuss gay persons, but only homosexual acts committed by heterosexual persons" (Boswell 1980, p.109).

What are your opinions?

2007-01-21 17:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Scarlet Crusader 1