my current and most recent ex g/f have been i lil bigger then me my ex was my height but heavier (but not fat) and now my current g/f is almost 5'11 where i am only 5'4 and lets jus say she doesnt exactly have a swimsuit worthy body i mean i know its the inside that matters but the outside itimidates me and it is preventing us from takin our relationship to the next level if you kno wat i mean *wink* it always happens to me this way we start of being friends and i end up fallin for the girl knowin i dont really see myself "do it" with her but in the inside that i love, her personallity. being the stud in the relationship i like to be in control 90% of the time and thats hard when she could bodyslam me with her pinkie finger. im not trying to be a snob o anythin i jus want to kno how can i get over this fear. maybe im scared that i cant give her wat she wants the age diference she has WAY more experience then me i want to show her i love her and fufill her urges how do i do that?
2007-01-21 19:06:00 · 3 answers · asked by HP 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
we are both girls
my g/f is 18 and im 16 she is is really "in touch" with herself and im totally not and im afraid if i dont do it right she leave me
2007-01-22 02:08:59 · update #1
Sounds like u love this girl no matter what, but somehow you have issues with larger women.
You know, you won't die from getting it on with a cuddly girl. In fact, big girls can get it on just as good as the skinny ones, sometimes even better.
It is a scientific fact that larger women have a higher libido than thinner women.
Age difference has nothing to do with loving your girlfriend. Either you have never done this before, or u seriously have some hangups about being a lesbian.
You should know what you want to do to her to show her that, otherwise, tell her that you want to know what she likes. Otherwise, do a little exploring and find out for yourself.
2007-01-22 00:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop over-analysing it!! If you dig the girl, then her outsides don't matter. If you over think it, then you'll end up with erectile dysfunction - don't do that to yourself.
Either you dig her or you don't - so take the next step and find out.
2007-01-22 04:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worry to much ,,JUST DIVE IN,,,, you'll both love it!!!
2007-01-22 03:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by S h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋