how could this happen?
2007-01-21 23:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't try to put "labels" on yourself!You fell in love with another human being...Does that make you bisexual or a lesbian because that human being is the same genre you are?To the eyes of the world it may be so...But you are what you choose to be and no one has the right to define what you are!Falling in love is wonderful no matter the details.I used to be with men until I met my current girlfriend-we are together for 4 years now.I fell madly in love with her and still am!I was so scared at the beginning cause I live in a conservative society but I am glad I went on having a relationship with her!
Sex with men does not disgust me but I prefer it with my girlfriend ( maybe I met the wrong men )!Sex with my girlfriend is heavenly but never tried with another woman ( maybe I won't like it )
Does this make me a bi or a lez?Who cares?I don't...as long as I am happy!!!
Thank you and good luck!Live your life the way it fulfills you!
2007-01-22 00:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Marianna D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey there. My girlfriend was straight when we met, and I am a lesbian. She came after me, and I had no idea she liked me.
The strange thing now is that even after 4 and a half years, we still haven't labelled her anything. She could be bi, she could be a lesbian, but she tells me that neither matter, because she is the same person she was before she met me.
Even now when occasionally we have to explain that we're together, we struggle to find a label to call her because she doesn't fit into the 'lesbian' stereotype, and she doesn't feel she can call herself 'bisexual' because she is only loving one person right now.
Why do we need labels when we are simply another couple who love each other.
So I say, love who you want to love, and follow your heart. Have fun in life, and don't waste away time by panicking if you're fitting into what everyone else wants. Things are getting easier in this day and age, and it is a priviledge to be able to openly love someone of the same sex without too much criticism.
2007-01-22 00:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between loving someone and being in love. If you are in love with a girl, you aren't straight. You may not necessarily be gay either but you're definitely at a turning point.
2007-01-21 23:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...you sound very friendly. You are in love with another girl because she's a nice girl and you lover her. If you want to have sex with her then you may not be 100% straight. It's kind of like the 9th Wonder of The World.
2007-01-21 23:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Is each and every guy interested in a diverse guy? Even the right this moment ones? I mean, I, for one, can verify out a woman and speak to her extraordinarily or warm. yet i haven't regarded at woman and theory something actual.
2016-11-26 01:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why fight it? I've been in a committed relationship with a "straight" girl (who chased after ME) for ten years now. You fall in love with the soul. Don't reject the gift just 'coz you don't like the wrapping!
Enjoy it.
2007-01-22 00:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just happens. Look at Ann heicht. She was in love with Ellen and now she's married to a man. You can't help who you love, just love.
2007-01-22 00:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are straight as you say then this cannot be right,perhaps this other girl is kind and a nice person and you are infatuated with her personality, but to persue a lesbian relationship with her would be wrong and it would be best to avoid this girl.
2007-01-21 23:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sentinel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a spectrum when talking about orientation. some people like guys, some like girls, some like both and you can like guys and still like this girl too. liking a girl doesn't mean you automaticly become a lesbien, if you like her as more than just a friend then i would say you are bi but it doesn't have to be your "title". you don't have to tell everyone if you like a girl, just admit it to yourself.
2007-01-22 00:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by always_4gotten <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. the cupid had shoot his arrow.. and land on u... so accept it that u in love with the gay... it doesn't matter whether u straight or gay.. Love does need to consider abt all this
2007-01-22 00:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋