Cultures & Groups - 27 September 2006

Girls these days have plenty of support groups. I am concerned for the males in our society. With the current pressures of modern day culture, men are being feminized. What is happening is most men are being conflicted with their inability to know the difference between the role they contribute to society and their relationships, and roles that have been inflicted on them due to the media and current culture. The feminazis are demanding of men these days to play all roles from understanding and being emotionally open to being strong and protective while the the females view themselves as to only play one, the effeminate role. This lop sided behavior is taking a tole on society. On the other hand we are finding that most effeminate males or homosexuals are being even more conflicted by not understanding their own masculine identity. Why is that most homosexual males are finding it appropriate to act in a way that is effeminate due to thier current cutural preseptions? When in fact most gay men are not effeminate in their behaviors at an early age or until they observe other gay men and believe that that constitutes normal homosexual behavior?

2006-09-27 12:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew S 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I have feelings for a guy in my art class he's so sexy he looks like a abercrombie model but i was pretty sure hes straight . hes 16 or 17 im 16 I told him how i felt i couldnt hold it if he clowned me i figured i wold deny it he said OMGG i feel the same way about you and i thought you were straight we're in the closet to friends and family but of course not with eachother but anyways he drives so he gave me a ride home we parked in the walmart parking lot and i was giving him oral. Now we are so close we do everything together but we are both in the closet and we arent coming out anytime soon.My aunt caught us one day me blowing him in his car she looked at me in diguest with a tear driping down her face she left for vacation for 2 weeks there no cell service were she is at so now im shitting bricks do you think she will tell on me when she gets back.

2006-09-27 12:28:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Why do black people want to be called African-american, even though they were not born in africa or never been there? If you were born here, you are just american. We are all americans, and our race is another subject. Also, there are white people that are African-american, so that does not distinguish your race. Ex: Charlize Theron, blonde hair, blue eyed, actress and african-american.

2006-09-27 12:21:11 · 15 answers · asked by AveGirl 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

im curious.

2006-09-27 12:13:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Or am I just a glutton for punishment to even attempt such a thing? I've been on here before asking about the validity of cheating in a relationship and whether or not it actually has ANYTHING to do with sustaining a long lasting relationship. But I guess what I really want to know is, can it ever really last? In OUR community, where aesthetics and youth is grossly celebrated, can a long lasting relationship between 2 men ever honestly last (sorry girls...you folks seem to work out alot better then us men). I believe or at least seriously hope it can (or at least thats my mantra). Please spare me the monogamy stuff...at this point the guys that have lasted being together, albeit being open with each other, are something to be envied. How do two men in love make it through together through an adverse society, religion, and life? **Hope this question isnt too tough to ask**

2006-09-27 12:10:22 · 17 answers · asked by QuickBrownFox 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-27 12:07:36 · 14 answers · asked by Big 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Starting it just for fun. Links to videos, pics, and fan sites welcome.

Some of you may already know my less than pure feelings about both Sinead O'Connor and Gretchen Wilson.

Sinead:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3y3HlQRwBL8
"I Want Your Hands on Me"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ogu9kgO4iys
"No Man's Woman"

Gretchen:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4hNo8ex4Wg
"California Girls"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jFTp8kOjLpw
My anthem, "Redneck Woman"

Your turn now!!!

2006-09-27 11:58:49 · 15 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Tell me this - are gay men more prone to pedophilia more so than lesbians, hetrosexuals. I am not predjudice towars the gay community, but I had an experience with a pedophile that makes me question whether sexual preferences result in sexual assault towards children. It was very painful and I know this was about me learning some spiritual lesson. God Bless

2006-09-27 11:50:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Which of these songs is the more annoying please give your comment on them
Aqua-Barbie Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEzh10_xoqw

or Toy-Box- Tarzan and Jane
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fMYISYEBJnY

Sad to say but I like both songs, there very catchy.

ToyBox is an Aqua Copycat, there not the same.

Tell me which you think is worst and why.

2006-09-27 11:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-27 11:27:58 · 16 answers · asked by karamel 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I always thought and felt that I was straight. In fact I 'm really attracted to men not even girlish guys. Let's say Clive Owen melts me. But now I'm a bit confused I feel really attracted to a girl I saw the L word and OMG Shane is absolutely gorgeous I must say she is a boyish figure a tomboy but a very beautiful one. Besides that I kind of like the idea of being with a woman. The question here is am I really bisexuall or am I a lesbian?

2006-09-27 11:26:11 · 25 answers · asked by petit chat 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-27 11:25:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-27 11:22:06 · 34 answers · asked by dimediva901 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

a autograph from him?

2006-09-27 11:21:55 · 7 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

What is going on here??? Is anyone as completely and utterly exhausted as I am with this crap?

2006-09-27 11:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by Vincent 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I I suspected my boyfriend was cheating on me, so I was snooping around and found an ad on the internet saying he was a bottom, looking for a top and was bi. Well, then I went and found a secret e-mail address. It was him contacting other men. He said he likes to be submissive, dress up ( I guess like a woman) and have the man screw him. He even said he likes to drink pee! I am completely lost. I just want to know, is that typically what a bi person is into or is he really gay and in denial? I guess I might be able to accept him being bi and liking both, but not if he really was just into men and using me as a cover in life. What do you think? Oh, he also used words such as he would host or travel. Apparently, he had been doing this a long long time!

2006-09-27 11:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by Bet L 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

What do you find attractive in a girl? How do u let someone know your interested in them?

2006-09-27 11:08:18 · 3 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Are light hispanics predjudice towards dark hispanics?

2006-09-27 11:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-27 11:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by Ms Bea 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I was drunk one night and a Frat Bud went down on me. Do i turn gay? do i have aids now?

2006-09-27 10:59:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i hope noone is offended by me saying my Gays, it's just who I am I LUV Gays

2006-09-27 10:55:25 · 13 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

According to Christian belief, homosexuality is an abomination and we're all going to hell. But then according to other religious nuts, we're "shoving" our "crap" down their throats, and we all need to go back into the closet. Well, in the closet or out, supposedly we're going to hell anyway, so what difference does it make?

2006-09-27 10:52:27 · 32 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-27 10:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by LeA 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

even though he stole $72k from me

2006-09-27 10:40:04 · 29 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

And beastiality and pedophiles were not ? It's something they learned ? Who is teaching these awful classes on animal sex and baby molesting?

I am sure i will get hate answers , but will i get a real answer ?

See if you can answer this with out a question .

I think Be dan might be able to give a reasonable answer , he does seem to be level headed .

We will see who is mature enough to debate this , my opinion could be wrong , so tell me.

2006-09-27 10:38:00 · 15 answers · asked by MarkFoley 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

do!

2006-09-27 10:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I don't want to look stupid so any suggestions

2006-09-27 10:19:02 · 32 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

the Day of Remembrance is the day we remember those of us that were taken from us through violence and hatred in the Transgendered community. what does it mean to you?

2006-09-27 09:54:01 · 4 answers · asked by KellyJeanne 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

much like you can ignore incoming mail on 'outlook express' if you don't want mail from that person...If so how do you do it?

2006-09-27 09:53:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Now, don't get me wrong, I fell head over gay pump heels in love with him, or I would not have been taking pictures of him. When he asked for a copy of the pic, no prob, I thought. Imagine my surprise when I find him on Silver Daddies! And worse off yet, a friend told me to look as he thought it was the picture I had blown up and is (was) hanging in my office!

2006-09-27 09:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Swen C 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender