Girls these days have plenty of support groups. I am concerned for the males in our society. With the current pressures of modern day culture, men are being feminized. What is happening is most men are being conflicted with their inability to know the difference between the role they contribute to society and their relationships, and roles that have been inflicted on them due to the media and current culture. The feminazis are demanding of men these days to play all roles from understanding and being emotionally open to being strong and protective while the the females view themselves as to only play one, the effeminate role. This lop sided behavior is taking a tole on society. On the other hand we are finding that most effeminate males or homosexuals are being even more conflicted by not understanding their own masculine identity. Why is that most homosexual males are finding it appropriate to act in a way that is effeminate due to thier current cutural preseptions? When in fact most gay men are not effeminate in their behaviors at an early age or until they observe other gay men and believe that that constitutes normal homosexual behavior?
2006-09-27 12:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew S 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I am a man and masculine and glad of it. I am not one of those blokes who sit around a table crying, trying to find their feminine side. Urp, slop, bring me the mop. And I certainly don't give a dip what society is doing to feminize men. If men fall for that crap, then get out of my face.
2006-09-27 12:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not an answer to any of those ridiculous questions, but a statement of my own!!!!!!
MEN ARE NOT the only one who have many rols inflicted on them!!
Women have equally, IF NOT MORE roles than MEN!! for one thing, women do have to work harder to prove themselves equal to men in the workplace (and if you think that isnt' true anymore, THINK AGAIN!) That alone is hard enough.............PLUS women with children also have to learn to balance the roles of being mother, a wife, and a repsected employee, which is harder than any roles that any man may have to balance!!
For one thing........ a women, such as myself, who has gone back to work after only 6 weeks of giving birth to a child and chosen to breastfeed to give her baby the best possible nutrition gets absolutely NO REPSPECT and is looked down upon and not taken serioulsy b/c we have to take time out to go to a bathroom stall and pump out our milk 20 minutes at a time, 3 times a day, which is a choice we should not have to feel guilty about making!!
Secondly, we have to work hard at tryin to be a good mother to our children, b/c let's face it, kids these days are in bad shape and headign in the wrong direction and it all starts at HOME, so i have to spend as much quality time with my kid as possible!!! which after work that gives me about 3 hours!
And as if that isn't enough, MEN demand that us women also be caring sexual wives as well, they expect to still have a clean house, dinner and expect us to be IN THE MOOD whenever they are, PLEASE!!
So don't complain to me about roles that men have to fill!!! as i see it, men have it easy................in my next life i will come back as a man, and i suggest you come back as woman and trust me, you wont' be worryign about your statement up above!!!
have a nice day!
2006-09-27 13:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you nailed it with that one... both asker and the 1st answer!
2006-09-27 12:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by wizardslizards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to work twice as hard to get half what all y'all are talkin' bout.
2006-09-27 13:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by denny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋