2006-09-27 11:25:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was having sexual contact with men before I accepted that I was homosexual or realized the implications of it. As soon as I accepted that I was g0y I began loosing weight working out and generally getting my body in shape. I have lost 86 pounds gained lots more muscle mass and generally look a hell of a lot hotter now then I did then LOL
I am now with a great guy and working out the details of how my divorce from my wife is going to take place. But all in all I am just happy.
2006-09-27 11:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, looking back, I was gay at the age of 12. I developed an interest in famous chicks but I just thought it was from a role model point of view.
Then later in life there was one real chick I started liking. I fought it off though with numerous boyfriends etc because my family was very religious.
Some decade later I realised that my true happiness lay in my hands and so I decided to take action. I asked out my girlfriend who is still my girlfriend.
It was hard initially to tell everyone but once everything calmed down I was so much happier and content with life. I wish I hadn't waited the decade in one way but in another way I was glad that I was mature enough to handle the situation when it arose.
2006-09-27 14:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to church and repented... then tried to be straight for ten years. I begged god on a daily basis to take the gay away.
Thank God I figured out it wasn't a big deal. I couldn't find happiness until I realized that god wasn't interested in my sex life.
I have now been in a great relationship for 16 years. Life is good.
2006-09-28 14:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was 18, my 1st semester in college. but I did nothing for years, because I lived at home for quite a while...and didn't even meet anyone openly gay until years later. now I have accepted who I am, and so have my friends and family, and I have a wonderful partner.
2006-09-27 14:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first realized I was attracted to females in high school I acted on it and had sex with her.
2006-09-27 11:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Gail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoyed my life as a gay man and I've felt great ever since.
2006-09-30 16:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through all the steps.
Denial
Anger
Bargaining
then acceptance
Now I'm great. Well alone so I guess not great.. but at least happier!
2006-09-27 11:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by college student 1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was doing before realizing already, so that question does not apply to me..bye.
2006-09-27 11:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moved on
2006-09-27 12:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun im str8, my Gays tell me the first thing they did was find someone to have sex with, they may have been joking though, why are you just finding out you are? then just do what comes naturally
2006-09-27 11:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋