I have feelings for a guy in my art class he's so sexy he looks like a abercrombie model but i was pretty sure hes straight . hes 16 or 17 im 16 I told him how i felt i couldnt hold it if he clowned me i figured i wold deny it he said OMGG i feel the same way about you and i thought you were straight we're in the closet to friends and family but of course not with eachother but anyways he drives so he gave me a ride home we parked in the walmart parking lot and i was giving him oral. Now we are so close we do everything together but we are both in the closet and we arent coming out anytime soon.My aunt caught us one day me blowing him in his car she looked at me in diguest with a tear driping down her face she left for vacation for 2 weeks there no cell service were she is at so now im shitting bricks do you think she will tell on me when she gets back.
2006-09-27 12:28:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When it comes to sex, you're moving awfully fast.
Maybe you ought to come out to your parents before she makes that decision for you.
You also need to talk to her yourself. It'll be uncomfortable, but so is what you're feeling now.
Also, you do know how to play safe when it comes to oral, right? That's what the mint and other flavored condoms are for, and you can get them at any drugstore.
2006-09-27 13:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should come out to your family and friends first before she does, if not, then talk to her as soon as she gets back and ask her not to tell and tell her that you'll open up later on when your older, just in case if your parents don't take it that well then atleast you'd be grown to leave the nest, and its ok if they don't take it well, family is important, but being true to yourself is more important, and if your family is going to act dumb all just on what your likes and dislikes are, then they don't need to be in your life, and the same with your friends, if they were truly your friends, then they would care about you no matter what, especially about something as small as what your prefferences are. another thing, I suggest getting more gay friends, there is a world of help there, you just don't know
2006-09-27 12:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I figure she will talk to your mother about it fairly soon. I think you should broach the subject with your mother before your aunt does.
To be honest you could fudge it by saying it was a crush and a one-off thing but would that be honest? If you can deal with this issue now, you would be doing yourself a big favour.
2006-09-27 12:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
UMMMM let me see.. YES she probably will ... or she will probably corner you and tell you she needs you to tell or she will.. Adults are so moraly fickled... the best thing to do is to go to http://www.pflag.com and look at the advice on coming out .. and be ready for anything. if you dont need the advice at least you will have it for later in life when you do need it... have a few back up planns ready so no matter what happnes when she comes back you are ready....
best of luck to you,
I understand what you are going throu I was once your age, and I also understand the parent side as I have a son your age who recently came out...
Blessings to you,
RiahWillow
2006-09-27 12:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by RiahWillow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i doubth it if she really wanted to tell on u she would of found a way. but is the wrost thing to happen, at least they will know that u r gay n u dont have to hide it from ur family. u cant change who u r and what u feel inside u will become a very unhappy person so calmdown and be brave
2006-09-27 12:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by EiaMaria 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, If I was you I would take the time to sit down and talk to your aunt. I dont think she will say anything.I think you should come out right now, so things wont get any worse in the future. Its better to come out than to be forced. Well gudluck kiddo!!
2006-09-27 13:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by slowboi1718 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It'll be alright. If she does say somthing the worst thing is that your family will know. Talk to her as soon as she gets back, tell her you will tell the rest of the family when your ready too. Hopefully she will respect your wishes.
2006-09-27 12:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by aza_424 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not if she hasn't said anything yet but i would talk to her when she gets back and talk to her. however, if she does tell are you willing to stand up for yourself or do their will? Good luck and give it a lot of thought. remember you deserve to be happy! God said it so why not?
2006-09-27 12:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
no longer continuously even though it relies upon on the way you look at it. Your perception is your truth. existence is theory, so in case you opt for the ending to be bitter, then that is going to likely be bitter for you.
2016-12-02 05:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by tramble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On second thought your only 16 SLOW your car boy. TOO YOUNG, WAIT A FEW YEARS FOR ALL THAT.
2006-09-27 12:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋