I always thought and felt that I was straight. In fact I 'm really attracted to men not even girlish guys. Let's say Clive Owen melts me. But now I'm a bit confused I feel really attracted to a girl I saw the L word and OMG Shane is absolutely gorgeous I must say she is a boyish figure a tomboy but a very beautiful one. Besides that I kind of like the idea of being with a woman. The question here is am I really bisexuall or am I a lesbian?
2006-09-27 11:26:11 · 25 answers · asked by petit chat 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
All I can say to you is experiment. There is no way of knowing really until you can decide for yourself. I used to be like that - found guys attractive.
Then I sorta lost that and turned me attention to chicks. But it wasn't one just like Shane - it was many. Have you had any thoughts about any other chicks?
You may like the idea of being with a woman but you'll never really know until you try it. You may like the idea but you may not like what comes with being a lesbian.
I'd say experiment but defiantely more bi
2006-09-27 14:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many straight women that I know have commented on some good looking gal and doesn't make them any less straight or gay nor BI.
All of see reat looking people all the time along with folks that have great personalities etc. and to give credit where credit is due it's always nice to let that person know how great you think they are.
2006-09-27 18:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know. We can find our own sex attractive, even sexy on rare occasions, but not our primary desire. If you dream of women, want to be with women, have been with women and prefer them, and you are a woman, then I'd say you're a lesbian. I don't believe in bisexuality as a core way of being, only as a conscious lifestyle choice.
2006-09-27 18:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are bisexual. A lot of people don't think that's possible, it is. I like girls and boys about equally, most people who are bi only like a few people of the same gender in their life, maybe just one, but are predominatly straight. I was shocked when I had a crush on a girl, but as long as you also like men you are bi. Lesbians don't even have small crushes on boys. Hope that made sense/ wasn't too long.
2006-09-27 19:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by bitsyblatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choices are what your making here and if you were truely a lizy or gay youd not be questioning this youd already know . im straight guy but in my life ive had female thoughts but i love wemon and thought of being with a man is gross to me and because thought of two wemon being together dosent gross me out makes me a little asshamed here but my upbringing has made me feel this way but its wrong either way . its ok for you to find this other women attractive but just be sure your not just wanting to try out this tabboo lifestyle because you feel youve been missing something . each person must make their own choices and then live with them . if you go this way youll forever be different in your own mind even if no one else knows . do what you want but be sure you can live with it afterwards .
2006-09-27 18:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just exploring some emotions right now. I think probably the same number of women as men are attracted to Angelina Jolie. Just go with whatever makes you happy. You'll know what is right.
2006-09-27 18:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rookie131 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You never know until you try it out... You may like the idea of being with a woman, but what would happen if you were faced with the actual thing? Experiment, and go from there!
2006-09-27 18:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by toratracker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for now from the information I would say you are bi-courious. My advice would be to see if it is really for you or just something about this particular girl. No matter how it works out, just be happy about who you are. Best of luck either way.
2006-09-27 18:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say no. i find people attractive all the time but i wouldn't think of having sex with them which makes the difference and defines my attraction (i hope you understand what I'm trying to say. and good choice because Shane is hot as hell!).
2006-09-27 18:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of this: you may be straight, but comfortable enough with your sexuality to be attracted to women. I am, and I am really really happy with my feelings towards others!
2006-09-27 18:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by schwarten46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋