I I suspected my boyfriend was cheating on me, so I was snooping around and found an ad on the internet saying he was a bottom, looking for a top and was bi. Well, then I went and found a secret e-mail address. It was him contacting other men. He said he likes to be submissive, dress up ( I guess like a woman) and have the man screw him. He even said he likes to drink pee! I am completely lost. I just want to know, is that typically what a bi person is into or is he really gay and in denial? I guess I might be able to accept him being bi and liking both, but not if he really was just into men and using me as a cover in life. What do you think? Oh, he also used words such as he would host or travel. Apparently, he had been doing this a long long time!
2006-09-27 11:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by Bet L 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Aren't you glad you snooped? Has your espionage made you happy?
Was he mad when you found out about his secret email address?
I don't know. Maybe if you rim him and use a lot of tongue action, you might be able to reconvert him to heterosexuality. They say love conquers all.
2006-09-27 11:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever he is, he's cheating. Dump his @$$.
I dated a bi man, and we had an open relationship, but we never kept secrets like that. And even though he was an idiot at times, I'm fairly sure he didn't drink pee or take out ads like that. Hell, I'm the one who taught him how to type and use the internet!
2006-09-27 19:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear talk to him! He might be bi but even if he is bi you don't deserve to be with someone who sleeps around regardless of sexual orientation. Fetishes are something that excites sexually somebody I don't like them but a lot of people are into golden showers maybe you find disturbing what he likes. Besides all these please get an STD test and ponder if you really want to be with a guy that cheats
2006-09-27 19:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by petit chat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are his vanilla girlfriend. He likes another lifestyle he isn't sharing with you because he is afraid of what you will think.
Some people experiment, but never change preference. Some finally come out. Sexual preference is about who one picks to love romantically, not just sexual activity.
I would confront him and see what he has to say about it. Once he has his cards on the table, you can decide what you want to do.
2006-09-27 18:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well confront him or leave him lol, Bi persons are difficult to be with because instead of having 50% competition now you got the 100%
2006-09-27 18:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Snow surfer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude! You would accept him if he indeed (and he does) suck di*k, drink pi*s, eat the wolf cookie, take it in the butt, etc... You would still touch him? If so, then what do you care? You're obviously a degenerate as well. If not, then what are you asking? Kick him to the curb with a quickness. Sick.
2006-09-27 18:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There's no such thing as a bi-sexual man.
In the immortal words of Andrew Dice Clay:
"Either you suk dik, or you do not suk dik"
Dump his a*s before you get AIDS or something.
2006-09-27 18:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
After all the evidence you've found your still asking that stupid question. Please girl protect yourself if your going to stay with him, you don't know what he's really doing out there and you don't want to catch something.
2006-09-28 10:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by marie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's gay..i would suggest you get an STD test and then dump the loser...Sorry for the lost
2006-09-27 18:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is soooooooooooo gay!! He is also still in the closet. get out now.
P.S don't kiss him until he brushes his teeth.
2006-09-27 18:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by AzzGoodAzzItGetz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋