My and my b/f have been together for 2yrs.This is my first relationship with another guy, and my longest relationship to date. So I am learning as I go. He has been in previous relationships, and was with his exboyfriend for almost 4yrs on and off. So he has more experience in this than I have.We seem to argue easily about stupid things, like we'll disagree on something, and he just takes it way too serious. I love him, so I try to avoid arguements, and I do a good job at it. My problem is that he has caught me on chatlines a few times being very expletive about how I was looking for someone to do sexual things with. The thing is that I have been on chatlines all of my life, and I havent ever met up with anyone. I get off on just the dirty talk. I tried to explain this to him, but I feel he thinks that I am actually trying to meet up with someone. We have both lied to each other throughout our relationship, but I dont think that he has been unfaithful, and I know I havent. This has taken its toll on our relationship, and now I think he holds resentment. How do I fix the damage I have done? I really want to be with this person, and I cant see myself w/o him. We get along when we do things, but we have trouble communicating about our relationship, so we each avoid talking about it. We recently went on a 3day vacation and I we had the best time of our lives, everything was great and we both enjoyed our company. It felt like old times.
2006-09-06
06:45:24
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