Cultures & Groups - 11 August 2006

2006-08-11 07:27:40 · 1 answers · asked by kira_devil_luna 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-08-11 07:24:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

So... I'm single right now. I've been watching this one chick for months. She's young, and very much a player. She uses non-commitment like a shield, and I can see there is a vulnerable side to her that she's hiding. She's been hitting on me for months, and I've been teasing her right back, but I haven't engaged because I know she'll just end up using me. That's what she's done with every chick she's been with in the past few months. SO... knowing this, I've decided to... get my physical needs met... and not let her anywhere near my heart. Because frankly, I could really fall for her. As much as I like her, I don't want to get my heart shredded.
Your advice on how to play a player would be greatly appreciated.

2006-08-11 07:21:13 · 8 answers · asked by revenueforge 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Who's "volleying" around because you don't have a bra (women) or (men) no underwear on or loose boxers/baggy pants on?

2006-08-11 07:21:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-08-11 07:20:26 · 25 answers · asked by chapers 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Only honest answers, please.....This is only to open up a discussion of the Cuba situation and not to offend anyone.

2006-08-11 07:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by Kendall C 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Is there anyway for a soon to be male to female trans, to lower his testostrone before he starts hormone therapy??? can someone give me a few options?? thank you

2006-08-11 07:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

It saddens me that even within this community transsexuals are still outsiders and often not accepted.I am a transsexual male.I was assigned f/m at birth and raised as such.Before I was old enough to start school I knew I was a boy.I am not a female now, nor have ever been.My gender and my sexuality are two SEPERATE issues.I live my life (private and public) as male If you met me in person youd have no reason to suspect otherwise.I look like any other beefed up guy.I identify as homosexual.I have sex with men only. I have sex with another man the same way any other man does.When a transsexual male is attracted to women he is straight.When attracted to males he is Gay Most transsexual women have surgery done to remove biological genitals.Most transsexual men have breast tissue removed.I do not need or even want anyones approval otherwise I'd still be waiting and wouldnt be where I am today.I want the same thing you want. Respect http://levi-murray.tripod.com/oneboisjourney/index.html

2006-08-11 07:07:40 · 13 answers · asked by Levi Cristopher . 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

OK, I know the politcally correct answer is no, gay people are always gay.

BUT: I kinda don't believe it given the large number of newly gay or formerly gay people I've known or heard about. These are people who got married, had kids and their spouses didn't know anything about the gay thing. Or former gays getting married and enjoying life. I don't believe that ALL of them are lying.

What would be the problem if a person decided to be gay or to stop being gay. Why not just admit it? It doesn't mean you cant be treated like a human being just because you changed your mind.

I don't get it. Somebody help me out....

2006-08-11 06:50:48 · 25 answers · asked by grdnoviz 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

How do leaders within your community treat people who are like you? How do they treat people who are different?
Do your texts or work manuals contain information by or about people like you?
Do the local media represent people like you? If so, in what ways?
What are some similarities and differences between you and the people who are in leadership positions in the community? Do you feel minority group interests are represented within you community?
If you could resolve inequities within your community, what would you change? How and why?

2006-08-11 06:45:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan T 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I've always wondered. Most are POWER bottoms.

2006-08-11 06:43:46 · 14 answers · asked by Kookoo Bananas 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

my fiance is a bottom, we want someone to join us in the bedroom, but looking for someone who is alright with me being there and even maybe joining in. We are having alot of trouble with this and its getting frustrating, is there any hope?? Our other option is an open relationship but for some reason i am having intense feelings of jealousy with him going out with other men without me.

2006-08-11 06:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Is a person ever really out of the closet?

A couple of points of view I have are:

1) Coming out of the closet could mean when you are out to yourself, your family and your friends. The problem here is, we all make new friends throughout our life. Are we constantly throughout our lives coming out to new people? Are we really ever out of the closet if this is the case?

2) A person is out of the closet when they feel no more need to hide their sexuality from anyone. Sure, from time to time, and because we live in a heteronormative society (a society that assumes heterosexuality) the person may need to tell someone that they are not straight. This isn't really "coming out" though, merely fixing someone's assumption that we are straight.

Of course, for transgendered people, it can be even harder, because it's easier for a gay person to make their sexual identity a non issue, it can be less obvious

So I ask, when do you think a person, if ever, is out of the closet?

2006-08-11 06:19:35 · 11 answers · asked by Shaun B 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

all the racist or anti-gay questions on here? Okay, you're a bigot. We get it. Get a life and stop asking dumb questions just to get a rise out of people.

2006-08-11 06:15:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-08-11 06:10:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

i just have been wanting to read some books like that the main Characters are gay/lez/or bi.

2006-08-11 06:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-11 06:03:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Going to the bars here in Houston, there are some HOT strippers that people say are straight. Granted, I don't even talk to them, just watch, but they seem to enjoy it when the gays touch their packages and rub their muscular legs and arms. One actually got upset that a girl touched his balls.

Are these men really very tolerant straight guys or really gay? What's the case in general?

2006-08-11 05:50:01 · 14 answers · asked by Kookoo Bananas 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

munesliver
Level 3

I am erasing my earlier response and would like to first make a public apology.

I am sorry if my earlier post was harsh and objectionable. I was in a hurry when I wrote it, this topic is something that I feel very strongly about, and after reading another person's response to my answer, I went back and read my own and was apalled at what I had written. I know that this apology cannot make up for my lack of respect in what I wrote, and I can only hope that those who read it can forgive me.

To me, this is one of the main issues of Y!A, and I feel that the debate, on some levels, represents how hard it is for so many different cultures to learn to get along. We will ALWAYS have these issues, and it is sometimes tiring to have them brought up time and time again. Why can we not just learn to accept that everyone is different, and that everyone does not express themselves in the same way? Is it not easier to accept that not everyone shares your point of view

2006-08-11 05:48:04 · 7 answers · asked by munesliver 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Who thinks David on Design Star is just the Hottest?

2006-08-11 05:40:10 · 2 answers · asked by Mark F 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-11 05:33:42 · 4 answers · asked by Lawrence T 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Since more and more gay people are having kids do you think that there will be more Gay people. Before you get all fired up at me I'm not generalizing, just thinking out loud so to say. Take a look.

For most straights not all, we look for people with qualities our parents displayed as a child. Kids watch thier parents more then parents think, I know that I emulated my dad and my mom. As I grew older the qualities and some of the faults my parents had I took on as an adult.

So why wouldn't a child of a Gay couple grow up with the same state of mind that I did.

These are my Mothers and I want to be like them, which may lead to her saying she likes a girl in her class right? Children may not know what sex is but they know what's going on.

I know that I'd be a lil taken aback if I had a son or daughter in grade school they are recieving I like you notes from the same sex.
I'd be like WHOA but I guess thats a reality I'll have to prepare for.

2006-08-11 05:33:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

any websites?

2006-08-11 05:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

watch videos ? i have been a few times but it seems like there are alot of gay guys hanging out

2006-08-11 05:30:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I ask this because everytime you turn around there is a negative racist comment made towards black and hispanic people, but whites are always trying to sing soulful, dance soulful, salsa, have ethnic features and enjoy mexican food dishes. Why is that? I really want to know....Answer with intellectuality. This is not an attack!

2006-08-11 05:28:00 · 26 answers · asked by brite star 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

My suggestion is that if the government got out of the marriage business and said that civil unions will replace marriage as law, then churches would be free to choose whom or whom not to marry. It seems to me that the very word marriage is what has people up in arms.

2006-08-11 05:24:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Were they nicer to the other person than me?
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2006-08-11 05:19:38 · 5 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Ok, this is something I've been putting some thought on, any lesbians care to give me some ideas or advise. Ok, say me and my GF would to stay together and later on marry, now obviously we can't have sex and get pregnant, but what would be some alternatives to having kids. Would adoption be a good choice as to create a family, or artificial insimination? Not that I'm worried about it now, but it's something that has crossed my mind.

2006-08-11 04:59:38 · 19 answers · asked by Fiesty Redhead 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

is it me or are the idiotic questions multiplying?
what with flippin incest boy there, then its pooter, and we cant forget big crazy trucker and his link to a virus that nobody goes to!

roll on when schools go back!

2006-08-11 04:58:19 · 13 answers · asked by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-11 04:54:29 · 36 answers · asked by David E 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender