Psychology - December 2007

and if there are bad things about it, shouldn't we just realize the bad things and introspect in our minds how we can improve it. I believe now that I have suffered from it but I wonder if it truly is a disorder or if it's just how my personality is wired. Even so, shouldn't I just accept it and read about how I can overcome some of the issues I have with it?

But that, ADD people often fluctate in moods throughout the day similar to Bipolar. By accepting this and realizing what is going on, shouldn't i just say to myself that I am goinhg to get better and that soon i'll think about something else and be ok.

2007-12-29 19:02:43 · 4 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2

Is it normal for a young adolescent to go through a period of time being so confused about where they're heading towards in life?

2007-12-29 18:15:02 · 12 answers · asked by bookworm 1

why dont humanbeing think positive first then negative

2007-12-29 17:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I cry about everything and I don't know why I do. It can be about anything that crosses my mind that happened years ago or whenever that's negative; I'll jusy cry about it. I've cried so much; I hate crying. Can anyone give me a reason to why I cry so much?

2007-12-29 17:01:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many people say this, but is it actually possible to happen to a person? Is it reciprocated?

2007-12-29 16:41:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

for example, ive been thinking that i hated people, i won grudge to humanity, and i didnt want to care about them, but i figured out that i like being around them,

take that as an example, what was the last thing that something like that happened to you?

2007-12-29 16:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by jose r 3

Or is it under an umbrella of similar medications?

2007-12-29 16:25:42 · 4 answers · asked by Dragonflygirl 7

I know this is a rediculous question, and I probably know better than to think this way but I've always been somewhat of a hypochondriac, so here I am asking:

Sometimes when I am doing my math homework, I try to do the hardest problems in the text, the ones that involve hard thinking.. anyway, I find that when I am pondering these problems I start to literally feel preasure in my brain (maybe its because I make myself believe it) is this bad?

2007-12-29 16:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 15:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is deployed in Japan and I wanna ask him questions that will bring him to vent his anger ,loneliness and frustrations!Especially because hes there alone ...working with guys he doesn't know that much of .


THANK YOU!

2007-12-29 15:27:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a more serious relationship with a guy I'm seeing now.

The problem is that since the beginning of this year my sex drive has practically disappeared.

But now that I’ve met someone I really care about it’s really bothering me… and I’m sure they must ask themselves questions.

He’s always been very nice about it… but how can I ask a guy to be my boyfriend (monogamous) if I can hardly have sex with him.

We do lots of foreplay, and I enjoy being intimate with him, I am very attracted to him… but I feel no desire, I can’t get aroused… I have to ask him to stop finally because I’m not turned on enough, the sex isn’t pleasurable.

We still get together, but I’m sure he sees other girls… which I understand.

I know sex is not all that matters, but to a degree, it still does matter.

I’m just very hurt about my situation… I don’t know how to talk to him about it.
What do I say? I have no sex drive?

He’ll think I’m not interested in him..He’ll think something is wrong with me…

2007-12-29 14:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by Catherine 3

2007-12-29 14:31:46 · 18 answers · asked by Girly Q 4

even assist/support a male molester in the act (even when it's not her own kid)?

2007-12-29 14:05:48 · 13 answers · asked by Lioness 6

i have always been this way but especially since i have a new higher paying job i have gotten worse. i buy something new almost every day. when im bored i go buy something, when i feel lonely i go buy something, when i get off work there is usually SOMETHING that i need to pick up on my way home. its not usually expensive things but still, little things add up. i cant seem to get the money i make into savings or to pay off debt, i have 4 credit cards that together add up to about $7,000 ,almost all of that $7,000 was spent in the past two years on bills when i didn't have the money for them and paid them with credit cards. i don't know what to do , is there some kind of place you can go like alcoholics do haha? seriously though what do i do about this? i am no longer getting into MORE debt but i only pay minimum payments usually so im never going to be on top like this.
what do i do to make myself stop buying everything i want all the time?

2007-12-29 14:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by None 4

I'm writing a short story from the percpective of a man with an addiction to alcohol. I chose to do this because I know what it's like DEALING with an alcoholic and I want to write about the aspects of addiction, but i dont know what it's like BEING an alcholic. I've been researching this as much as I can but there is only so much I can learn. I would really like to talk to an addict about there experience/experiences. So if anyone can help me out, please let me know. Thank you

2007-12-29 13:43:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I look around, and more and more I seem to see that people are obsessed with these things, are you?,,,,or not?
....and how do you feel about this as a national obsession?

2007-12-29 13:32:45 · 11 answers · asked by mchlmybelle 6

I am about to have a nervous breakdown.I am so sad,it's physically making me ill.I am throwing up.i come from a strict family with high morals.my parents look down on people who have sex before marriage.well i started college this year and been dating this guy for a month,he started pressuring me into sex,the naive girl that i am,i gave in and started having sex with him.just last week i found out he's been cheating on me for a week.stupid me,he didnt use protection but didnt bust in me.i am so scared for my health now but i dont know where to seek help.i dont have money,i cant tell my parents,idk where to go to get tested.im extemely heartbroken,the guy is with the other girl now,ive been used and to top it off im stupid.i contacted him and he told me to get a life.im so hurt.idk what to do.my sorority sister knew he was cheating on me and didnt say a word to me.ive been betrayed.i trusted him completely and he made me believe that we would be together for a long time.im also sick.

2007-12-29 13:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by Don't Give Up On Me 1

Of all the different things out there to get involved in (homosexual acts, BDSM, and all kinds of fetishes) what do you think of Infantilism (diaper fetish). It's not widely know about, but nonetheless, what do YOU HONESTLY think of it? Right? Wrong? Don't care? Anything you care to comment on? Any questions you have on the topic?

Diversity is what make the world go round, and I was just curious as to the mainstream take on this fetish

2007-12-29 13:23:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 12:50:51 · 33 answers · asked by carlos r 2

2007-12-29 12:48:15 · 2 answers · asked by Lindsey H 2

should you get them out of your life?

2007-12-29 12:42:53 · 17 answers · asked by chicagonightowl 2

im 30 have borderline personality disorder,i live alone in a one bedroom flat on benifits.

because of my extremely hard, traumatic unfortunate life ive never : had a girlfriend or been in a relationship ever : never been employed or gained qualifications : never made any friends ever :
never lived or had any fun ever. suffered traumatic experience after traumatic experience...sexual abuse...bullying. etc.

now im a prematurly aged, bald, 30 year old and i want to know:

could it have been a conspiracy where ive been prevented and denied the things in life others have ?

i.e playing the field with girls...being in relationships....job oppurtunities...a purpous...direction...success...friends...regular sex...freedom to do what i want.

say if it was a conspiracy and ive been purpousfully denied all that by a big group of people with power and influence.?

what should/ could i do about it ?

because i feel extremely bitter, angry, jealous & gutted & resentfull ive never had those things

2007-12-29 12:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I will tell you a little about yourself.

Okay, okay, I know this is Jeopardy so I will have to state my answer in the form of a question.

Thus:

What are your two favorite colors, in order of preference?

2007-12-29 11:54:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm reliving those events..I had just told my therapist a small portion of one incident 2 months ago that took place 17 yrs ago, and I've never regreted anything else more than I do speaking of this to anyone. I felt I had better control when I kept it to myself, now that I have told someone it's been pure hell... Flashbacks, nightmares, scents.. and dreams so real like it's happening again. My therapist has been out of town for a couple weeks and I had major surgery as a result of the past, that was becoming life or death. I need serious help and advice, I'm so scared that I don't want to sleep any more and I have such a huge stock of previous prescribed pills that they are looking better by the minute than havin to deal with all this.. Would I have been better just to keep the door closed in the first place and never have mentioned the rapes cause I thought I was doing ok with them stuck in my head, and now I don't have any control and my violent crying and anger is really..

2007-12-29 11:43:13 · 5 answers · asked by Shawny 3

Getting a degree in counseling psychology (mft). If I can't afford to take an unpaid (or low paid) internship and decide not to become licensed (just get the degree)...what areas can I use that degree in?

2007-12-29 11:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 11:30:15 · 40 answers · asked by roger_kalsi 2

i've noticed in my 17 years of life, that everyone is "different" whether it's personality, or looks..

a better question would be, is normal a possiblity? is it all around us? or is it. . . you get the point, if everyone is different, and being different is normal. . i could also say that everyone being normal is the same, so in this particular case, the same is different?

different and the same are alike...?

can't carry on asking, confusing myself.

thanks to those who may, or may not.. answer.

2007-12-29 11:29:41 · 16 answers · asked by Annelunar 1

interesting to know how you would do it.

If you where that p****d off with life, to the point of committing suicide, how would you go out of this world?

Dont worry, im not p****d off yet, no worries there.

2007-12-29 11:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some kids wanted to be a cop or a firefighter, how bout you?

2007-12-29 10:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by ♀♥♂ LOVE IS A FUNNY THING ♂♥♀ 2

2007-12-29 10:32:57 · 7 answers · asked by exp 1