ok, i've been with my bf for 6 months, and for about 3 months he hasn't said "i love you." he did for a while and then i told him i had trouble trusting him, as i do with everyone, and he got upset and after an argument decided that it was too soon to say i love you so he stopped. he now says he doesn't know how he feels but that he cares about me and wants to be w/ me. he keeps coming up w/ things for us to do together, he's affectionate, he takes care of me, he's forgiving and generous, he worries about my safety (and i know b/c i crashed a mini-bike and he got all worried about me), he's totally sweet and all, but it bothers me that he doesn't say i love you. i've asked him if he does and just doesn't want to say it but he says he doesn't know how he feels. i'm getting tired of waiting for him to figure it out and i wonder if he just does and doesn't want to say anything b/c it's too soon. any thoughts?
2006-08-20
17:33:42
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