can u give me advice of how i can get him back cause i still really love him?
2006-08-20 11:08:14 · 14 answers · asked by monkeygirl_150 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
the best advice i have for you is to move on. i know that this isnt what you want to hear right now and that it will be hard but its the best thing for you to do. for one thing you should have to much pride to beg someone to be wit hyou ok? If he dosnt like you then he dosnt, and he just wasnt meant to be. Just ignor him for now or just treat him like a friend (whatever you feel more comfortable with) you will eventually find someone else. This will show him what hes missing and maybe he will realize that he made a misake. Then the power iks in your hands. maybe by that time you will realize he was not for you. either way your life wont be revolving around him.
2006-08-20 11:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by cutie pie! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get him back is to not try to get him back. Try taking up a hobby, and stop the idle daydreaming. If he sees you are getting on with your life there is a slight chance he may find your newly found independence attractive. Also this will help you to get over your feelings of rejection, and stop you knocking your own confidence by investing in somebody who has told you he doesn't want you. I know it's hard, but the desire is what is causing you the pain.
I wish you well
2006-08-20 20:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just outgrow each other and maybe you just have to move on. Hanging in there and totally depending on him isn't going to make him love you. Maybe if he sees that you take control of your own life and move on he'll respect you for it and wants you back. But by that time you'll probably don't want him anymore 'cause you've found a better deal.
2006-08-20 18:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it's hard to let go of someone you've had a long term relationship with. but you gotta consider the fact that he's not interested in you. you don't want to be with someone who can't devote their mind, body and soul to you. while you're giving them 100%, they're giving you 10%! if that much! you should be with someone who upholds and regards you as highly as you uphold and regard them. never ever settle for second best. if you go back to your ex boyfriend, that's what you'll be doing. it will hurt to move on with your life but it's for the best. you may never get over the love you have for him. that's normal. but it doesn't make staying in a poor quality relationship right. in the words of miss tina turner, "what's love got to do with it!" good luck and stay strong.
2006-08-20 21:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are literally hundreds of things you could do to get him back. But why should you? If the feelings of love is not mutual then the whole business is hopeless.
2006-08-20 19:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk if he just doesn't like you for no reason after 3 years..
but i guess if you really miss him that you could wait untill you've had some time apart then tell him how much he means to you, and why you should be together etc.
2006-08-20 18:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by 21/f/mn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better forget this guy. He probally used you till the new wore off and now he has moved on. Theirs a lot of those guys out there like him. They are no good! Learn a lesson from this one and leave those other ones like him alone. Good Luck!
2006-08-20 20:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start to date other guys he will see what he lost and try to get back with you.
2006-08-20 21:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is that you are banking on him, if he sees you taking interest in somebody else, he will come runnin', the secret is not to overdo it, in overdoing, you KNOW what will happen. :) hope this does it and he is not reading this!
2006-08-20 18:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by anjum a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is to use better grammar. It is "My ex and I have ...."
You can't get somebody back if they don't want you unless you know the reason.
2006-08-20 18:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Barkley Hound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋