Even though i know this is old stuff comming up for me, it still seems to affect my life sometimes worse in certian situations. I am a mother and grandmother. I dont drink, drug or smoke and tend to be very good to others. I seem to attract other people who dont feel good about themselves and only need me. they want to find something wrong with me. few of my good realtionships are based on people who say they love me and that i am a great person, to the contrary i seem to only want the approval of the ones that want to point the finger at me and find any faults i may have, I know i am human but i cant seem to accept i have faults and feel that i am no good and still bad. As a adult if i make any mistakes , especially in the presence of people who say things like , look at you and what you are doing ! I then remember my childhood and how i was always the bad one in the eyes of my family and now an over acheaver in my adult life and it is wearing me down, does anyone understand this
2007-09-14
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