Ive known one good looking feminist in my life,me and her dated for awhile and when she wanted to go to this feminist meeting I went (against my will, lol) and all the other feminist just shunned her and when she tried to talk to them they just ignored her. Ive come to a conclusion that feminist hate good looking girls because there jealous. What do you think?
2007-09-14 12:29:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
wendy g im 18 so step off
2007-09-14 12:38:04 · update #1
patois are you high none of the links you gave me showed good looking girls
2007-09-15 02:47:29 · update #2
The stereotype that feminists are ugly is as bad as the stereotype that men who are good-looking are dumb as rocks and shallow. Stereotypes just aren't true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why the hell did a feminist date you, anyway? Just wondering. Must have had low self-esteem. :) That's like an African-American person dating a member of the KKK.
2007-09-14 13:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kinz 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Wow. How am I supposed to even begin to take your argument seriously when you obviously know nothing about feminism? Feminists don't "hate good-looking girls." That is assumingright away that all feminists are unattractive or "manly", an unfortunate stereotype.
It seems we have a long way to go, yet.
2007-09-15 02:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I'm not sure why this is happening to you! You must be really unlucky since you only happen to meet physically unattractive feminists...
Are you actively seeking to find beautiful women who are also pro-women's rights? Perhaps you're just going to the wrong places to meet them. Try going into yoga studios, indie rock concerts, women's issues classes, or sociology classes-- you might have better luck there.
FYI though (in case you didn't know...) feminism isn't supposed to be about man-hating or ball-busting or trying to say women are better than men, it's about saying EVERYONE is equally important and necessary in society. It's about rejecting the social standard norms and saying men aren't BETTER than women-- we are all equal human beings.
Also one more thing... You don't have to be a woman the be a feminist, and in fact, if you are a man who is a feminist you will probably attract more females! :)
Good luck with your quest for pretty feminists!
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PS) the feminists who make a big bruhaha about how much better they are than men are not real feminists... somehow they've lost theirway and their minds too apparently-- they make all women look bad. Kinda like how men who always blabber about who they nailed last night make all men look bad. It goes both ways you know... :)
2007-09-15 00:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkasaur 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, i don't think it's coincidence... it seems to me that feminism is partly built on a supremacy complex, or rather, an inferiority complex.
You know, really small guys tend to have hot tempers and loud mouths, because they subconsciensely feel a 'need' to make up verbally what they lack physically.. it's the same with feminism, they suffer an inferiority complex and so make a big hoohaa about how superior they are so as to make up for their lacking areas (e.g. pig ugliness, can't get a date (unless they drug some poor guy) and stuff like that).
Thus, I agree with Locke.
Sammy, feminism is 'supposed' to be about equality... not sex or gender - of course, that might no be true and so your hypothesis could be 100% accurate ;-)
2007-09-14 19:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
What feminist meeting was this?
And no, the great thing about feminism is that we like to treat women as human beings, no matter what they look like. We think all women should be valued for more than their looks, and that goes for beautiful women and not so beautiful women. So I find it very hard to believe that any feminist who is so hard-core she would actually go to meetings would dismiss another woman's opinion because of the way she looks.
2007-09-14 20:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by ©å®®ĩε 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Maybe it was because she had a guy at the meeting
Kinda odd to have a male and at a feminist meeting,hmm?
2007-09-14 19:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by ★s a m y★ 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yeah ok, I think I stopped caring maybe 4 months ago about what guys think of women who are feminists.
I don't really care either whether masculinists are good-looking or not.
Need more caffeine.
2007-09-14 19:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Shivers 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
those b!tches! Yea, maybe they are jealous, idk because she's hot and have a as good looking bf, or that they can't get their own bf and she can.
IDK maybe both.
some women can get jealous easily and some can't.
like it's so hard to get me jealous,
which piss of some guys, because they're like hot,
but i turned them down because they're b!tches, or those guys who are abusive to their gfs.
they get pissed off and later come back with a hot girl.
He'll be hanging around her, but start kissing her or making out with her when i'm around them.
After a few weeks he comes yelling at me.
and 'm like what the f*ck!
And he's like why aren't you jealous you ***** and i'm like because i'm not. And he walks away piss off.
i have this other story but i only post one story per post.
and almost everyone of my post comes with a story.
2007-09-14 20:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by lyndahongvandoan 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
most woman r feminists they just don't advertise it. Being a feminist is just wanting to be able to have the same goals and aspirations as men. What is so unfair about that.
2007-09-14 20:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
Mope.
The MAJORITY of the feminist out there are very unattractive and manly looking
2007-09-14 19:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋