It seems like no matter what, they will never be happy. My Dad has always had a negative attitude in general. My Mom, or at least it seems, used to be happy, but now all she does is dwell on the past. There are solutions to most of their problems but I guess they would rather not make the effort. I understand that they are both depressed (I have dealt with it myself) but at a certain point, I think you need to take responsibility & try to do something about the things that are bothering you. For example, my Mom has been unhappy because we moved away 3 years ago. Now that they are moving to the same state, she keeps telling me that she's not going to be able to stand living so close to some of my Dad's other relatives. It's like, can't you ever be happy?! She's finally getting what she wanted so I don't understand! What do you make of it? And btw, they also make excuses not to go to therapy.
2007-08-01
09:15:50
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