My ex has this big thing about wanting to "get comfortable" with me. This means to spend a long time taking the whole relationship at his pace and on his terms. Once he is comfortable, he can be devoted and caring. Anyways, that's the way the relationship worked before. However, this has made hard to restablish because things broke up with so much confusion...not exactly anyone's fault... but still......things had to be discussed, and he made that very hard with all of his demands for comfort.
Anyways, We have worked through some of the bigges tproblems; I don't think he's too pleased about this, but I insisted upon it...this is my boundary. You want to get to know me again: work on our stuff, and at least give me closure....However, he has recently gotten fed-up of talking about the past, and walked away. I am not mad...I actually need my space now, and I feel much better for what I worked through, and I like him more now than before. But should I say anything, or just let time pass
2007-05-05
13:57:52
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Christina V
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