My now ex bf and I had a huge falling out, its very complicated but jist the same he was at fault, and it ended our relationship. After , I wanted to remain friends with him, because deep down I know he has a good heart. He told me he didnt like to fight with me either, but he wasn't a great friend. And he decided he didnt want to have anything to do with me. I dont know if he is ashamed, feels guilty, but he was not even able to talk to me for more then 2 minutes. I got really angry at him and felt like he walked all over me..again. So, after some time, I called him today and left him a message and told him I forgive him, not because thats what I want him to hear, but because this is who I am. I am a forgiving person, but this time, I made it clear and told him we should cut ties completely. I just wanted him to know. I'm done with the drama and what happened and it dragged me down. I am a forgiving person and being mean and holding grudges doesn't make me stronger it makes
2007-02-01
10:16:36
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