People are complicated, right? They're not all good or all bad. They have good and bad qualities. I can think of an example in literature.
In Tolstoy's War and Peace, there is a golden-hearted, hapless main character named Pierre. Pierre is pressed into marrying a society woman, Helena Kuragin, against his better judgment.
Soon, she begins to cheat. The guy she cheats with seems to be a scoundrel. He is a wanton philanderer, disrupting families like it's a sport. Then, mocking Pierre after his conquest, which leads to a duel.
Anyway, it ends up this guy that seemed to be without merit actually had a very caring side. He doted on his mother and his sisters, providing for them, looking after them.
Maybe A. Jolie is a modern day example. There she is wrecking families and appearing to relish it. Then, she goes to Africa and adopts and does good stuff.
How do you net it out, personally, to decide if someone who intrigues you is horns or halos?
2007-01-18
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