I was born in Indonesia and I have lived in the US for 8 years now. I like it here and I don't have any intention of moving back, even though all of my family members are still there. I have been going through cultural adjustment and in a way, I am getting americanized. I found myself distant from people of my country and at the same time, I'm not really "American". However, I have more tendency to adapt myself to become an american, rather than learning deeper about my own roots because I think I need to adapt in the environment that I'm living in. Also, I have this complexion of making myself better, because it's hard to deny that America is the world's benchmark and I tend to view that life back home is inferior. I often ask myself, "If I don't even love myself for being who I actually am, can I actually be a good and complete person?" I am afraid that abandoning what has been a part of me will make me empty and vain. What do you think?
2007-01-18
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