Why does it seem that people tend to dislike nice-n-shy people? They are usually quiet and careful with their manners meaning that will not offend you, will not insult you, will not disrespect you, will not act like they care less about you, just super nice. I've seen with my own eyes how people warm up to their enemies before warming up to one who is shy n nice...so what they're more quiet than most...maybe SEEM a bit prudish because theyre a bit timid...but what harm does that bring to you? With many, when you don't immediately LOOK for reasons to hate them and be annoyed by them upon acquaintance, and take the time to get to know them, you'll find they may become an entirely new person once they establish a comfort level with you?
Why does it bother you so much that I am quiet, but so damn nice? Would you prefer for us to be mean to you? Really?
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2006-07-23
05:59:38
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wearyblossom
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Psychology