Why is sex viewed as nasty when looking at the opposite sex performing at the moment?

Question

Have you ever noticed like when you see the opposite sex participating in a couple having sex. Doesn't it always seem dirty when you see the opposite sex. For instance, I'm a guy I see this female getting sexed up and it's like, She's a nasty female, she's loving it. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, however, if you see the opposite sex enjoying it. It just seems dirty or taboo. Your thoughts on this? Females and guys open to response. I'm not gay either by the way. I'm straight. So my view of it still remains the same in my eyes regardless if I were gay or straight.

Answer 1

I really think it's just the way society has conditioned people to think. Sex has become a huge taboo in today's world, even with all the sexual content in the media.

In many cultures, females aren't supposed to get pleasure from sex, so the fact that they do enjoy it makes it seem "dirty." It's kind of a sexist view, but when society really hammers that idea into your head, it's hard not to follow it.

It's a turn on to most because the taboo can be very intriguing and sexy. It's like some guys like watching girls masturbate because it's like something they're not supposed to even know about because society really puts a big stigma on female masturbation.

However, I don't know how many people see things like you do. I know I don't see the opposite sex as nasty or dirty in porn. I do however wonder why females allow themselves to be objectified so much. But I suppose it's all in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 2

Don't know your age but sex in and of itself is really not a pretty site like in the movies lol! Its sweaty and unattractive but when your the one having it your not looking at yourself to SEE the primal way in which it is actually done. It is beautiful because of the person you are having sex with. It begins beautifull with all the flowery kisses ect but when it comes down to the nitty gritty you probably burn more calories then running a marathon lol! Now when you speak of WATCHING.......your not SUPPOSSED to be watching others "doing it". That is why it seems nasty because if you are watching, it is YOU that is nasty. See how that works?? If its two people that love each other it is beautiful BETWEEN THEM....but still nasty to you because of your frame of mind since you are watching. Stop watching and get your own mate!!!!

Answer 3

It's all to do with your parents, school and especially religious beliefs, sorry to say but many of us are brainwashed into these beliefs.
Keep in mind these beliefs, have a very useful purpose, and gives you a conscience.

Example Islamic women, they cover themselves head to toe, and try to get them to change. they have been seriously brainwashed or conditioned.
Also in the past men were not allowed to view the birth of their child, I don't know why, but that was the way it was.

Rule of thumb:
The only time it is bad, is when it hurts you or others, mentally or physically.

Answer 4

i have a 360 page and my blog was sort of about this, and how people are closed minded and ignorant, don't be like that sex is amazing and to watch can be wonderment, so don't shy away, open your eyes as well as everything else.

Answer 5

i look into her eyes then chack if she has the "qualties" i love then i attempt to get a glance on the ft (foot fetish YEA! lol, my instructors will by no skill get why some people like ft a lot (not their ft))

Answer 6

Unless it's an out & out rape, why does it seem offensive? Hell , it's kinda hard to tell. My eyes are usually closed.

Answer 7

its human tendency to love what belongs to you, and to hate what others have.
for eg. u will see your romantic relation with respect, but u will look at others romantic relation with disrespect.
same applies here.

Answer 8

It is just a stereotype