My older brother is 10 mos. older than myself. We were very close growing up and I really looked up to and admired him.
In high school he had great grades, he was handsome, played sports and was very popular. I was very proud of him.
After school he went to college for a couple of years and was an honor student. Then he went into the Navy. In the Navy he suffered a mental break down and was diagnosed with schizophrenia.
Long story short, after his diagnosis I felt like the brother I knew and admired was dead. Someone else took his place who is strange and delusional. He is hard to be around. We have a big family, my parents live close to him and we are from a family of five kids.
Whenever he calls, I dodge his calls and I never visit him. Instead, he talks to each of my kids. Am I horrible for dodging him? Or, is this a normal reaction? Do I need counseling to learn how to cope with his illness?
2006-07-09
13:22:14
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