I'm currently 35 weeks pregnant, and separated from my husband. I know he deserves to be there when our child is born, and that to exclude him from that definitely won't help when and if we decide to work things out... but it's such a vulnerable position for me. To boot, I am going through MAJOR depression because of all of this, and I don't know if i will be able to handle having him there. How can I be fair to him and still keep my composure without it affecting my ability to concentrate on the birth? When do i call him? When i first go to the hospital and am told that I am in labor for sure? Or closer to when they say it will be soon? I almost feel like I don't want anyone there, because I don't know how I will act towards this baby when he/she is born, because all of our problems as a couple started during my pregnancy, and I'm still angry(but trying to deal) because of that. What would you do?
2007-02-02
16:37:46
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24 answers
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Cyndi Storm
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