Hi, I have a great boyfriend, and already one 3 yr old son whom I brought up on my own so far. I just got pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to keep it. I think it will be hard whatever we do, as we are only together 6 months so far, but now we have conceived I feel unable to take its life. he says he can't go through with it, and I already went thru with a pregnancy without any help from the father so know I can't cope if he resents me/leaves us. (I do believe a child is better with two parents, mainly because I get stressed etc then you can take turns and the kid knows someone is always 'ok' and there for them) Do I hope he comes round to the idea of a baby, or do I just have an abortion, and then probably feel so depressed I won't be able to stay with this man? I feel like I'm being put in an impossible position. BTW I'm 33, he's 40 and already had 2 kids years ago. I feel like I'm in a bad dream. I was so happy till he came over and started telling me what I have to do.
2006-10-02
08:45:17
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