am pregnant with my ex. bf child but he is dating my best friend now. I am also with someone else and have been for 8 months. This happened 2 months ago when me and my guy were on a break and i saw my ex. bf at a frat part and well we hooked up while being very drunk. I was not in the right state of mind and he had been dating my best friend for 3 months. I dont want to hurt my best friend or my bf. I know my best friend worships my ex. bf.
2006-10-02 09:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I dont think i can abort after my ultra sound
2006-10-02 09:27:12 · update #1
not the only time i have had casual sex with him while on break from my bf.
2006-10-02 09:31:44 · update #2
I am 100 percent positive it my ex.bf because i had not had sex with my bf for two months
2006-10-02 09:33:43 · update #3
You need to come clean the sooner the better, everyone especially your ex b.f deserves to know that he is going to be a father. Every one makes mistakes and we all have to learn by them it's called life. So just grow up and tell him because know you have to think of that baby and not about friends at the moment.
2006-10-02 09:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well that does sound like a sucky situation to be in however, you need to just tell them. There's no point in hiding it because they are going to find out anyway. As far as your bf goes, he will be upset but if you two were split up there is nothing he can do about it. Unless you made a decision to split up for a while and not see other people. Now as far as your ex goes..yeah he cheated and his gf ( your friend) will be very upset and probably not like you for a while or ever. He did cheat and you did help him, even if you were really drunk. All I can say is you might as well get it over with because you can have all that stress with a baby on the way. You are doing right by keeping the baby. Everyone will be upset at first but it may work out in the end..all you can do is pray!
2006-10-02 16:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you could tell your current boyfriend that you cheated while drunk but leave off the part of who it is. And later if ex asks lie. This has the potential to get ugly. My daughter went through this and 12 years later it is still pretty ugly. Use your head and do not let the ex bf bully you into a dna if you dont want him to be the father.
2006-10-02 16:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with both -- that they BOTH need to take DNA tests after the child is born to determine who the biological father is of the baby.
YOU need to be up front and honest -- that is the only way to handle this situation. YOU have hurt not just yourself, but the males you slept with, as well as the child, and the other party -- the girlfriend too.
2006-10-02 16:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you positive it is his? How long were you on a break? I think that I would tell your current boyfriend first and see how that goes. Maybe you and he could get a paternity test in private before you bring your ex into it. You might be suprised.
2006-10-02 16:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by HSK's mama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna have 2 come clean & tell everyone who's 2 say it's your ex's seeing your with someone else it could be his now you need to see Jerry Springer for a DNA Test lol.You won't know till everyone is tested so be honest.Good Luck
2006-10-02 16:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sound slike you got alot of thinking to do before you decide to say anythingto anybody you need to know in your own mind what to do before you go making decisions after all its a baby youa re talking about and maybe in time in later life you will need to tell the child things about the farther and then the farther will get to know so think very hard before you make any decisons
2006-10-02 16:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered putting this baby up for adoption? Your situation doesn't sound stable enough to raise a child in.
2006-10-02 16:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to hurt someone in the long run no matter what.
You better just come out and tell everyone.
Good luck
2006-10-02 16:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First tell your current b/f and see how he takes it.... then call you ex b/f and let him know.... who cares what the other girl thinks
2006-10-02 16:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by rhodes727 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋