Pregnancy - October 2006

Im having our first son... My husband and I have been married for a year and Im due in three weeks... He is 19 and Im 20.
For 2 months now Ive been trying to get him prepared for the baby.. we both have jobs and a apartment. BUT his priority is hanging out with friends, playing his music, and partying.. while Ive grown up and started preparing for our future.
I became extremely angry because he informed me that he isnt ready emotionally, and that he felt dead inside. BUT his top priority is his new family. I told him to grow up and be a man because Id leave him if I felt he couldnt care for his son.
Our latest arguement was that him and a male friend of his and 2 female friends that he knew in high school were going to a drag show.. I went along to be apart of something fun but instead I was the 5 wheel! One of the girls even sat in his lap during the show! He doesnt see anything wrong with that because its a friend from high school... is it okay that a girl sat in his lap?

2006-10-14 20:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by Debbie C 1

My question is i am 21 weeks preganant with my third baby for two days now i have this pressure in my vagina which is very pain full i did have this with my last baby but as i have had all my labours very early im getting concerned my first child was born at 36 weeks my second was born at 30 weeks i have been told my cervix is damaged from operation along time ago could this pain be my cervix or is it normal to have that with the more preganancys you have i have been seeing my doctor every two weeks to have my cervix measured as he is away for a couple of weeks my concerns are growing that mabey my baby is getting ready to come as the head is right down please help with concern thanks.

2006-10-14 19:44:08 · 7 answers · asked by regankimmy 1

2006-10-14 19:37:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i had unprotected sex, thursday5th, friday6th, monday9th, tuesday10th. and he cam in all 4 times. i ovulated on the tuesday10th. will the doctors be able to tell if i am pregnant by giving me a blood test on tuesday the 17th,

2006-10-14 19:35:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. what pills/medication did they give you?
2. how long were you there?
3. Did they cut you down there?
4. Did it really hurt?
5. How much was the hospital bill?
6. how long did it take for it to heal/ shrink back to normal?

2006-10-14 19:30:55 · 15 answers · asked by sweety 3

My daughter is 6 mnths old and I have been taking a low dose pill due to breast feeding. I only began having my period again in August and in Sept, but this month missed. I have the symptoms of my period with back pain and moodiness, but no period. There is some thickish white discharge - no odor. Is a "unsteady" period usual after pregnancy, or could I be preggo again?

2006-10-14 19:25:41 · 4 answers · asked by mom2kennadi 1

Can someone please give me some unique baby names (boy or girl) that start with the letter 'A'? Nothing common like Anthony or Alicia please.

2006-10-14 19:03:53 · 28 answers · asked by Monique 3

I am 20 living in Sacramento California and Im pregnant. I live with family and I am working and going to school. My boyfriend lives with friends and doesn't work. I'm not sure if I should have the child because we are not finacially ready. What are my options?

2006-10-14 18:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 18:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by Jenelle 1

I was wondering if someone could help me out on this one. I stopped taking birth control like a month ago because I missed my doctors apt and I was not able to get anymore birth control until a few weeks after that I have not started taking it yet though you have to wait until the Sunday after you get your period to start taking it I did have unprotected sex but he did not go in side me he pulled out before he went but I thought that maybe you could still get pregnant off of pre *** but anyways I got my period today and I was wondering could I be pregnant and can you get your period when your pregnant? Or am I just worrying about all this and how could you tell if you had a miscarriage? because my period is very heavy and it is really bright red and it has black chunks in it and that dose not usually happen until the end of my period but it is usually dark not red at the end or could it be that my period is acting different because I stopped taking birth control? I don’t know I think I am just worrying myself but if you have and answers for me that would be very helpful. Thanks so much

2006-10-14 18:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by I love my baby boy! 1

im married and i have no parents to talk to.. im confused on what i should be thinking right now..

2006-10-14 18:41:49 · 20 answers · asked by christina p 1

im having discharge that is usualy cloudy white.. im having back pains.. my stomake hurts all the time.. when i had my last poriod it came 1(1\2) weekes early.. i feel sick all the time.. and i feel dissy like i could fante.. could i be preg?? sorry about the spelling..

2006-10-14 18:15:48 · 17 answers · asked by christina p 1

The midwifes say i am having a big baby and i am booked in for my 3rd c-section but still have 2 and a half weeks to go scared i'm going to burst has anyone had similar experience?

2006-10-14 18:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by Nicky T 2

2006-10-14 18:13:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I know that the best answer is DON'T DRINK IT AT ALL but you see I am English and a hot sweet cup of tea is the only thing that makes me human in the morning (ask my husband). I also work around some other pregnant women and they eat Mc Donald’s for lunch and chug down soda's all day long, I do not join in with this and avoid soda wherever possible and I have increased my water intake and nibble on a banana when I need an energy boost but on days that I am working on my feet for hours at a time a starbucks late can be very tempting indeed. I am only 8 weeks pregnant at this stage so my question is how much caffeine is ok?

2006-10-14 18:09:37 · 9 answers · asked by LondonLou 3

For several weeks I have been running about 2 miles at 6mph and then on to the eliptical for another 2 miles. Is all this cardio safe?

2006-10-14 18:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by nicole 3

2006-10-14 18:04:29 · 24 answers · asked by icypinkbunny 1

I lost my baby on sept 11th. I was (6weeks) i think im preg again. My breast are sore, and iv have what i belive to be implation bleeding and some cramps,and cant sleep. Thing is with my first my boobs HURT. The are sore now, but it doesnt feel as bad as the first time. Is this normal??

2006-10-14 18:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah S 1

2006-10-14 17:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by nicole 3

My hubby is agens me wearing a bikini once i start to really show. I dont think there is anything wrong with it, if i feel ok about it. What do yall think??( he says its nasty looking??)

2006-10-14 17:42:37 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah S 1

2006-10-14 17:39:43 · 17 answers · asked by nicole 3

umm im not sure but for the last 3 weeks my boobs been hurting a lil. so have my nipples. i been havein mood swings. i would only be like 3 weeks prego. what do yall think?

2006-10-14 17:31:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

their clothing looks too small with that belly sticking way over the waist of their pants.

2006-10-14 17:27:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just took a warm bath and as I was getting out I noticed some veiny blood clots in the bath tub. Now, I lost my mucous plug about 3 days ago, I am 3cm dilated, 70% effaced. This is my 2nd pregnancy. I feel stupid for asking for an opinion on what to do....but I never experienced ANY of this with my 1st. I am 37 and 3 days. Thanks.

2006-10-14 17:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been trying to get pregnant for about 6yrs now and i am not geting pregnant,what do u surggest?

2006-10-14 17:05:12 · 9 answers · asked by spice 1

I'm signifigantly overweight. I stand 5' 7" tall and i weigh 233 lbs. This is my first pregnancy and I'm just curious about a few things. When you're my size or bigger, I know there are going to be a few minor differences. I understand that. What I really wanted to know was, at what point were you able to actually feel your uterus? Either from the outside or inside? Did you begin to feel "tight" on the inside long before it was visible? If so, at what point in your pregnancy did you feel it? I'm still in my first trimester and just not feeling very pregnant and was wondering when I could look forward to feeling some changes. I'm fully aware that we're all different, I just wanted to know your experience. Did you have any complications due to weight?

2006-10-14 16:55:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27 wks pregnant,all the calculators say that i concieved on april 22.I had sex with one guy aroundthe second week of april and sex with one around the last week of april...Which would most likely be the father? Thanx for sinsere answers

2006-10-14 16:49:25 · 20 answers · asked by hadyn.s1htmoma 1

2006-10-14 16:45:20 · 11 answers · asked by nicole 3

i got my ultrasound done and it had two lines. and they said it could be a girl, does anyone else have any remidies on how to tell the sex diference

2006-10-14 16:38:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many days you need to wait to take a home preanacy test???????

2006-10-14 16:35:05 · 18 answers · asked by njsweetheart69 1