I am not very close with my father, but after my 1st child I thought i'd give it a try, so I made the iniative and called and even visited.
He is still the same ol Jerk as always, just I think he tries more.
Well He drinks alot, and I just told him I was pregnant with his 2nd grandchild (btw im 26 and married) and his response was"you havent figured out what causes that yet" "if you keep your legs closed this wont happen" I told him Im done talking with you and told him to put my step mom back on the phone, she has had it with him too...
Do you think I should quit trying, I mean, hes a drunk and hes mean! I dont want my kids around this kind of thing. and why should we have to deal with this?
We have never been close So I dont talk to him about this, How would you approach this? Im thinking of telling my step mom I dont want to talk to him when hes drunk and I sure dont want my kids around him!
2006-09-22
08:10:28
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crystald
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