so today something embarassing happened to me and like 3 people kept on laughing and taunting me about it .
how do i live it down? move on? accept it?
it hurt so bad and when i came home today i wanted to kill myself but i just gotta find a way to survive this. what should i do?
i already told them i didn't appreciate them doing that but they just kept on anyway.
2006-09-22 08:25:32 · 12 answers · asked by CryBabyChick 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone does something embarassing from time to time. When I was in elementary and middle school I was picked on as well. As much as it frustrates you and hurts your feelings, please don't take it too personally. The kids are looking for your reaction and feed off it. Don't scream at them or get violent. Not only will you probably get punished from school (detention or suspension) but they'll have a reason to enjoy picking on you more. Hold your head high and go about your day as if nothing happened. Tell the other students you don't want to talk about it and try not to react when they go on and on.
I think it is important to work on yourself. Find some sort of hobby or class you enjoy such as art, choir, drama, band, or athletics. You may feel better about yourself if you accomplish something, even small things. Or participate in your church's youth group. You may find loyal friends who you have something in common with. Yes it IS ok to be in the band, choir, youth group, etc! Don't listen to what the other kids say about them.
2006-09-22 08:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rhonda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem too. Well It was like living hell for 2 hole year in 4 and 5 grade. I was taunt on my b-day, on holidays, and party's and the teacher didn't anything about it went I talk to him. So Now am a 10 grader and look back at all those mean people who done that to me. And I now am a survivor.
Don't kill yourself for that you will see later they will dropout like some did from the people who was mean and other things.
But all you have to do is have one good friend for this That's all I gotta say, Hope this helps you!!!
2006-09-22 10:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say move on. I grew up being made fun of because of my weight, and I know how it feels. I have been there when the taunting of other kids made me want to kill myself also. Kids can be really mean. I know it's not easy, but I found that I just had to ignore what they were saying, and let it roll off my back. For me what also helps is my personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
2006-09-22 08:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a child, I heard fatso fatso 2by4 every time I passed one kid's home (and I wasn't that fat). Now that same kid would like to be friends with me, because, whoops, I grew up to be someone who had stuff she wants! Darn. Too bad for her. Revenge is a dish best served cold... and avoid the little buggers who tease you if you can. If they don't stop, report them. In most places bullying is against the rules of the school, if not the law!
2006-09-22 08:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone. I wouldn't worry. I don't think that it was correct that they laughed and when you said that you didn't appreciate it, the kept laughing. Don't worry. My husband went to the bank and our 3 year old son wrapped himself around his leg and pulled his pants off in the bank. (It was busy) He was embarrassed. It was funny. He hates going into the bank now because the ladies will laugh and make comments about it. But it is all in fun. Wait till something happes to them.
Don't worry. Write it in on a paper and burn it and let it go.
2006-09-22 08:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um just figure that the people that are still tauting you have some type of mental illness because they can seem to let it go but at the same time have you ever done the same to someone else........ you know what goes around comes around.
2006-09-22 08:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like it doesn't bother you. If they see they are getting to you, they'll keep doing it. Put things in perspective. It's over and just move on!
2006-09-22 08:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either ignore them or laugh with them. then it won't seem so fun to them anymore and they will find someone else to pick on.
2006-09-22 08:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This to shall pass, eventually I promise
2006-09-22 08:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore them and dont let things get to you
2006-09-22 08:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by jesterfrack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋