I was just wondering cuz alot of ppl say tell the teacher when thats kind of pathetic.
2006-09-22 12:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by Nicholais S 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-09-22 12:20:40 · update #1
NO! not at all....would you tell on a friend for using drugs? that's selling them out...You wouldn't do that for any other person either...I'm sure you can deal with it.....
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Kelli
2006-09-22 12:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my kids were younger I told them the same thing. I'm apposed to fighting unless it's a matter of life or death. However, it didn't work much when they were younger and it didn't seem to work much when they got older either.
You can try discussing the problem with the student. If you don't feel like you can do this or it doesn't work then I would suggest going to the counselor. Tell the counselor your not wanting to be a "tattle tale" but just looking for ways to resolve the problem without resorting to violence. Counselors are trained for this.
I just thought of this... I wouldn't reccommend it but it worked for my son. He always had trouble with other students until high school. He just started acting crazy. If someone got in his face he just acted like a lunitic. They would back down - they thought he was crazy. (and I wondered myself)
2006-09-22 19:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is threatening you, go to the principal, not the teacher. There really isn't anything that the teacher can do. If it is just someone saying crap to you just stand up to them. Most bullies are basically cowards and will back down when confronted.
2006-09-22 19:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Usually the teacher will be able to help you with the problem.
2006-09-23 12:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A teacher isn't your enemy. Yes, if there's a serious problem, then you should ask them for help or advice.
2006-09-22 19:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by profJohn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No....i think you should just handle it on your own. A teacher can only make it worse on you.
2006-09-22 20:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no like someone said they usually say stop bothering her or move you away it kind of just escalates the problem by people saying your defensless
2006-09-22 20:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, The teacher will say something dumb to her like. please stop bothering her, or they would move her like one seat away from me or something..like that makes a big difference..
So now I just take it into my own hands..if you know what I mean.
2006-09-22 20:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you tell the other person to stop it or you'll tell.. and then tell the dean or the principal or the guidance councelor... the teacher prob won't do much
2006-09-22 19:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yea i would if it was that serious i mean it kind of depends on what it is, and it also depends on if you are soft hearted or just don't care
2006-09-22 19:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Tori V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋