Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and we spend every day together. To begin with I already have a low sexual libido, but in the last few months I haven't been getting as "wet" as I did before, and my boyfriend has noticed. He asks me after we make love if I'm still attracted to him, and I can see that this is bothering him. He has a pretty low self-esteem, and I think he bases his image of himself off of whether he can pleasure me or not.
The thing is, he does pleasure me, I find him very attractive. The only thing I can think of that may be affecting this is just habituation. We have a great relationship, no fighting, we are even starting to plan a future together. It would be hard for me to tell him the reason is that I'm used to his body and face, he'd take that the wrong way. Tell me how to spice things up and let him know that I still find him sexy. We have years ahead of us, so I need to figure this out now.
2007-03-09
06:28:12
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Kagome
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