Mental Health - August 2007

2007-08-09 14:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm nrly 16(agirl)bout 5'7". I feel the only way I get better/progress at sumfin is whn I comit 2 ana. I didn't eat frm 2am tues till 8pm yserday(Thurs) I thought I could've gone longer but I was getn dizzy n I didn't wnt mom 2 get suspicious so I had a big dinner w/ her.my friends r nerds mostly cuz I got rejected by evry1else. I hardly have ne girl friends. I feel so stupid cuz I used 2 b as smart as them but I dunno, I got stupid sumhow. I stopd bing smart so mostly I gave up. espec in maths. I have no idea wht I'm gonna do when I get out of school. I used 2 wnt 2 b an architect but it has become clear 2 me that I'm 2 stupid n obviously not creative enough so I'll prob end up running off 2 sumfin like landscape designer or florist(atleast I'd enjoy being stupid then)my dad's gf is a self rightious ***** who insults me infront of my dad 2 get bck @ him in a fight thn nxt min. they're lovey dovey. I feel depresd alot n I think I'm fat alwys.

2007-08-09 13:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 12:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by kay-leigh 2

Everytime I get into an argument with someone I get very mad very quick and can't help but yell and curse. Then afterwards I cry because I'm so angry and I hate it. I hate gettting mad so easily and crying so easily. What can I do to stop this?

2007-08-09 11:02:33 · 27 answers · asked by ... 5

"manias", he cheated on me twice. Once (going to dinner w/ girl and then making out) and the other time 2 mnths later and had sex w/ a different girl. We have a child together and have had a rollercoaster marriage (now, I know the reason why). He has been put on meds and is back to his normal self and feels horrible for everything he has done. But, personally, I am battling my emotions. Part of me wants to understand and excuse him b/c he was out of his mind basically but the other part of me thinks I am being one of those "stupid girls" who is a push over. I am wanting to know if anyone has had a cheating bi polar spouse and if they got through it and how? Or, if they left the relationship and are better off? Please help!!! Thanks!

2007-08-09 10:55:56 · 15 answers · asked by keri f 2

when i was growing up my dad used to hit me i dont mean the odd slap on the bum i mean proper hit me and i stoped seeing him when i was 13 and always said i would never be like him and now ive started treating my partner like s**t he upsets me i want to hurt him i just feel like hitting him and today i did it wasnt like proper hit but he was holding my arms so i couldnt hit him and i dug all my nails in i hate myself for it inever wanted to hurt him but i have and its not fair on him and all i can see is me turning out like my dad and i dont want that i feel like leaving him so i cant hurt him anymore and at the moment i even feel like getting rid of myself because i have hurt him how can i stop this i dont want to be be like my dad i really dont and i love my partner so much but when i get angry its like i cant stop myself and i know its not right and i hate myself i really do!!!

2007-08-09 10:54:55 · 5 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5

My case manager told me that because I told her that my depression & anxiety affect my performance in college. & I told her I can't concentrate when someone is popping their gum doing the middle of an exam. & she said they have every right to pop their gum since they pay their money. & I said "Well that's why I need my disability testing accommodations in a quiet area in the testing center so I can be able to concentrate better on the tests. I do have the right to receive those accommodations." & she said I was making excuses for my poor performance in school & that I should take my tests in the classroom just like everyboody else. & she says her job is to help me, but everything she tells me hurts. & she thinks I should stay in the classroom & tolerate the gum popping ignorance & distractions. & she thinks that me saying I get distracted easily is an excuse to say I can't do the work. If I push myself too hard I get an anxiety attack & have to go to the hospital which I wanna prevent.

2007-08-09 10:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 10:24:48 · 24 answers · asked by louise d 6

(excuse my spelling plz) im so irritated i dont know how to stop it.... i feel like screaming && breaking stuff but i cant do it wat shud i
do to stop this irritated thingy argh!!! i f/ckin hate this sh*t!!! excuse my language plz.

2007-08-09 10:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by bummblebee 1

Everytime something goes wrong, no matter how small, I find that life would be better if i was just.

I always wonder if i need to go to some therapist but my family would never take me seriosly if i told them that i was suicidal. Infact, i think they might even laugh. I've been this way for about 3 years now, almost.

Is there anything other than therapy that might help me?

2007-08-09 10:11:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my friend Jessi at the end of 2006, as we worked together. She moved to PA in April with her boyfriend and her son. She was driving with her boyfriend and didn't remember who he was, or the date. She thinks she is still in 2005, yet we are in 2007. She doesn't remember her child being born but she does know that he is her son. She doesn't remember who I am, except for what her boyfriend tells her. I just talked to her on the phone today and tried to jog her memory as best as I could. They will not except her in a pychward because she is two weeks pregnant.

Does anyone know what could cause this memory loss?

2007-08-09 10:04:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've tried like the dickens to get counseling for the aggravated sexual assault I went through a month ago. I've called all the hotlines and they couldn't help, I called my church and even my old church and they couldn't help me.

When I say they can't help I mean that I can't even seem to get a human on the phone, all I get are "leave a message at the beep" and no one ever calls back. My church said the "counseling pastor" is gone on vacation until next month. It's so ridiculous that I can't even find one sympathetic ear, so I said "okay God I get the hint, I have to help myself".

So I'm asking, how do I help myself overcome this? Can you recommend a book or tape that can help me deal with this terror I feel now and then, and the depression that follows it?

Please please don't tell me to keep calling, I seriously gave it a good try and got nothing for my effort, I can't keep doing it. If I don't get help soon, I'm afraid I might die.

2007-08-09 09:57:42 · 2 answers · asked by Lisbeth 3

I'm in that state more often now than before. It isn't bad, right?

2007-08-09 09:53:28 · 6 answers · asked by Crazygirl ♥ aka GT 6

I know my niece is getting all the help she needs; she is seeing several specialists weekly. I am really worried about her mom. Everytime she starts to talk about the problem she breaks down in tears. I don't even know what to say to her. The husband/dad doesn't seem to get it at all, and I can tell he is not much support. I don't want to put my nose in where it is not wanted, but I can tell they are all falling apart and it breaks my heart.

2007-08-09 09:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by Angie W 2

Can it also make you sad at times?

2007-08-09 07:12:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

always worried something might happen, always scolding us to come home early

2007-08-09 06:15:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been to several they are all clueless. ive done bloodtest they say im healthy as a horse but there is defintily somthing wrong. 14 experienced depersonalization/derealization.

but it went away after 2 weeks. ok? but it left me with no sense of self and absolutly ZERO emotion. I mean even my senses are numb I cant even feel vibes? from people when I walk around my mind is fixated on how im walking im way to overly aware of what I am doing at all times. Now I would say this is just depersonalization but how can it be? I mean I dont feel like im not in my body and I dont feel like im living in a dream anymore? altho it has been 6 years maybe I do have depersonalization and Im just so use to it?

or what the hell am i suffering from? my little brother came crying and sobing to me this morning hes 3 because he spilt his eyebrow open and I felt nothing I helped him tryed to comfort him of course but i cant feel anything!

2007-08-09 06:00:01 · 6 answers · asked by nooooooooooooooopeeeee 1

I have a few questions 4 people who or had a eating problem.

1- How did u fell when u made ur self sick?
2-y did begin?
2-can skinny and fat people have a eating problem?
3-how did u over come it?
4-where u picked on?
also a few questions about self-harm
1-before u harmed ur self did u want to do it and knew it was wrong but did it anyway?
2-do u ever fell like ur reason is not good enough
3-do u know y?
thanks from Jessica

2007-08-09 05:34:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone got experience of this drug?

I've heard some good things, but wikipedia only has some random statistics on it, I'd like to know peoples first hand experience of it

2007-08-09 05:29:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work at a truck parts in puerto rico and here i have to deal sometimes with bad costumers and stuff so what can i do to lower the level of stress while still on duty?

2007-08-09 04:50:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older siseter talks about it all the time, somthing about thinking positive?

2007-08-09 04:21:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has no problems falling asleep - but is very restless when asleep grabs hold of things, talks and can be quite aggressive but cannot be woken up.

2007-08-09 04:10:19 · 11 answers · asked by poobarty 1

I live in El Paso but want to attend a deliverance conference as close as possible. For those (few) who know what I am talking about, do you know of any? Do you have a number of someone with whom I can speak by phone if there is no conference? I am serious, and I do not want ghosts busters and folk living in sin and trying to help me get out of sin.

You would be surprised.

2007-08-09 03:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by Richard S 4

from a psychologist point of view

2007-08-09 03:29:47 · 7 answers · asked by Neriz M 2

Hi, I was prescribed serenace by my psychiatrist for extreme fear of exams(and some hormone test he took) around 6 years back,& since then I am experiencing a lack of libido.I used to feel awful while I was taking the medication,and silly things(like sex,exam or the chance of my toe nail getting upturned) used to scare me all day long. I used to cry, and sometimes felt better if I went under a table.Since then, I stopped feeling anything when my boyfriend(and now my husband) kissed or touched me.It has nothing to do with him, because other things like movie scenes stopped having any affect on me too.

2007-08-09 02:56:33 · 2 answers · asked by Turki 1

threatening or intimidating...or who remind me of victimizers of the past?
i seem to disocociate and stare sometimes like in a trance..but because of my tough bullying, victimized past i have a rage problem that is difficult to control whilst out..so i only venture out when i have to..
im doing well controlling the rage feelings, but it is very very hard and sometimes it can so easily surface and flare out of control..
iam 30 have borderline personality disorder...ive been refered for psychotherapy..however what concerns me most is my inner rage feelings, the antisocial behaviours i can slip into...and the staring when i feel threatened or intimidated or just a group of guys or one man that might remind me of abusers of the past....spark igniting the flame.
i really want to overcome this so i can move on with my life..i plan to leave the uk, relocate to a hot climate..
but has anyone got any tips for me, whilst outside on how not to show rage, stare or antisocial behaviour?
merci

2007-08-09 02:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

does the addiction cause mental health problems?

2007-08-09 01:48:24 · 13 answers · asked by la21unica 4

2007-08-08 23:22:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom cheated on my dad and she ruined my whole family's life and my dad moved to dallas then he moved back because of me and my brother oh and i'm 12. now my moms new boyfriend is totally a pece of trash he is also cheating on his girlfriend and he already has a new born baby and my mom knows that but i wonder why she still talks to him on the phone(because he lives somewhere else) and sometimes i sneak into my mom's bedroom and look at all the text messages they sent to each other and pictures. i know all this stuff because of my dad and iam, thankful to have him my mom is always secretive!i hate she ruine d my whole family's llife! now i keep getting depressed and i cant eat or sleep and i keep thinking what is happening to me and my family.is this depression?

2007-08-08 22:13:06 · 4 answers · asked by NEGEST W 1

2007-08-08 21:50:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous